Gia Rave
@giarave.bsky.social
Writing about desire, honesty, and what we’re taught to hide.
Author of The Unofficial Guide to Dealing with H0rniness: A Real-Talk Exploration
https://intqbf.xyz/dQMEAM
Author of The Unofficial Guide to Dealing with H0rniness: A Real-Talk Exploration
https://intqbf.xyz/dQMEAM
I stepped back to listen more closely.
Desire has a way of speaking when we stop rushing to explain it.
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Desire has a way of speaking when we stop rushing to explain it.
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Get your copy of my book on Amazon today:
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January 15, 2026 at 3:27 PM
I stepped back to listen more closely.
Desire has a way of speaking when we stop rushing to explain it.
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intqbf.xyz/dQMEAM
Desire has a way of speaking when we stop rushing to explain it.
______________________________________________________________
Get your copy of my book on Amazon today:
intqbf.xyz/dQMEAM
When you notice desire,
do you usually follow it, resist it,
or try to explain it away?
do you usually follow it, resist it,
or try to explain it away?
December 27, 2025 at 7:51 AM
When you notice desire,
do you usually follow it, resist it,
or try to explain it away?
do you usually follow it, resist it,
or try to explain it away?
Desire isn’t something I try to control.
I pay attention to it.
That alone changes everything.
I pay attention to it.
That alone changes everything.
December 27, 2025 at 6:22 AM
Desire isn’t something I try to control.
I pay attention to it.
That alone changes everything.
I pay attention to it.
That alone changes everything.
It’s called The Unofficial Guide to Dealing with H0rniness: A Real-Talk Exploration
It’s about desire — not how to perform it, but how to listen to it.
It’s about desire — not how to perform it, but how to listen to it.
December 23, 2025 at 11:12 AM
It’s called The Unofficial Guide to Dealing with H0rniness: A Real-Talk Exploration
It’s about desire — not how to perform it, but how to listen to it.
It’s about desire — not how to perform it, but how to listen to it.
Question:
Does desire feel more physical or more emotional for you?
Does desire feel more physical or more emotional for you?
December 22, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Question:
Does desire feel more physical or more emotional for you?
Does desire feel more physical or more emotional for you?
Question:
What helps you slow down enough to notice what you’re feeling?
What helps you slow down enough to notice what you’re feeling?
December 21, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Question:
What helps you slow down enough to notice what you’re feeling?
What helps you slow down enough to notice what you’re feeling?
Question:
Do you listen to desire when it whispers — or only when it insists?
Do you listen to desire when it whispers — or only when it insists?
December 21, 2025 at 1:22 AM
Question:
Do you listen to desire when it whispers — or only when it insists?
Do you listen to desire when it whispers — or only when it insists?
Question:
Does desire feel more like hunger, memory, or restlessness to you?
Does desire feel more like hunger, memory, or restlessness to you?
December 20, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Question:
Does desire feel more like hunger, memory, or restlessness to you?
Does desire feel more like hunger, memory, or restlessness to you?
Question:
Is desire louder for you in the morning, or late at night?
Is desire louder for you in the morning, or late at night?
December 19, 2025 at 12:30 PM
Question:
Is desire louder for you in the morning, or late at night?
Is desire louder for you in the morning, or late at night?
There’s a moment when the body decides
before the mind catches up.
I like that moment.
before the mind catches up.
I like that moment.
December 19, 2025 at 5:13 AM
There’s a moment when the body decides
before the mind catches up.
I like that moment.
before the mind catches up.
I like that moment.
Question:
When do you feel most aware of your body?
When do you feel most aware of your body?
December 18, 2025 at 11:55 PM
Question:
When do you feel most aware of your body?
When do you feel most aware of your body?
Desire doesn’t always arrive loudly.
Sometimes it waits,
patient and persistent,
until I finally pay attention
Sometimes it waits,
patient and persistent,
until I finally pay attention
December 18, 2025 at 3:20 PM
Desire doesn’t always arrive loudly.
Sometimes it waits,
patient and persistent,
until I finally pay attention
Sometimes it waits,
patient and persistent,
until I finally pay attention
Desire doesn’t always want to be acted on.
Sometimes it just wants to be noticed.
Sometimes it just wants to be noticed.
December 18, 2025 at 8:09 AM
Desire doesn’t always want to be acted on.
Sometimes it just wants to be noticed.
Sometimes it just wants to be noticed.
I don’t rush desire.
I let it stretch,
change its mind,
come back when it’s ready.
I let it stretch,
change its mind,
come back when it’s ready.
December 18, 2025 at 4:43 AM
I don’t rush desire.
I let it stretch,
change its mind,
come back when it’s ready.
I let it stretch,
change its mind,
come back when it’s ready.
I like the moments after.
When the body is quiet,
and the wanting hasn’t quite left yet.
When the body is quiet,
and the wanting hasn’t quite left yet.
December 17, 2025 at 1:36 PM
I like the moments after.
When the body is quiet,
and the wanting hasn’t quite left yet.
When the body is quiet,
and the wanting hasn’t quite left yet.
Tonight feels heavier than it should.
Holding space for grief.
Holding space for grief.
December 15, 2025 at 8:59 AM
Tonight feels heavier than it should.
Holding space for grief.
Holding space for grief.
Some desires don’t need an audience.
They just need space.
They just need space.
December 14, 2025 at 2:48 AM
Some desires don’t need an audience.
They just need space.
They just need space.
Can’t sleep.
Feeling a little frisky.
I started thinking about how things used to be.
How desire had to wander.
Remember phone books?
“Let your fingers do the walking.”
Funny how some urges never needed Wi-Fi.
Feeling a little frisky.
I started thinking about how things used to be.
How desire had to wander.
Remember phone books?
“Let your fingers do the walking.”
Funny how some urges never needed Wi-Fi.
December 13, 2025 at 9:13 AM
Can’t sleep.
Feeling a little frisky.
I started thinking about how things used to be.
How desire had to wander.
Remember phone books?
“Let your fingers do the walking.”
Funny how some urges never needed Wi-Fi.
Feeling a little frisky.
I started thinking about how things used to be.
How desire had to wander.
Remember phone books?
“Let your fingers do the walking.”
Funny how some urges never needed Wi-Fi.
I went to the gym tonight.
Moving the body has a way of reminding you how luxurious it is. The effort. The heat.
And then the quiet pleasure of a shower afterward.
Simple. Sensuous things.
Moving the body has a way of reminding you how luxurious it is. The effort. The heat.
And then the quiet pleasure of a shower afterward.
Simple. Sensuous things.
December 13, 2025 at 4:21 AM
I went to the gym tonight.
Moving the body has a way of reminding you how luxurious it is. The effort. The heat.
And then the quiet pleasure of a shower afterward.
Simple. Sensuous things.
Moving the body has a way of reminding you how luxurious it is. The effort. The heat.
And then the quiet pleasure of a shower afterward.
Simple. Sensuous things.
Ignoring desire doesn’t make you disciplined.
It just makes you quieter.
It just makes you quieter.
December 12, 2025 at 10:39 PM
Ignoring desire doesn’t make you disciplined.
It just makes you quieter.
It just makes you quieter.
We’re taught to be embarrassed by desire.
To joke about it, suppress it, or pretend it isn’t there.
I think that’s a terrible waste of energy.
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To joke about it, suppress it, or pretend it isn’t there.
I think that’s a terrible waste of energy.
💋
December 12, 2025 at 2:47 PM
We’re taught to be embarrassed by desire.
To joke about it, suppress it, or pretend it isn’t there.
I think that’s a terrible waste of energy.
💋
To joke about it, suppress it, or pretend it isn’t there.
I think that’s a terrible waste of energy.
💋
Hi BlueSky… I’m Gia.
I write about desire, awkwardness, bodies, and the beautiful mess of being human.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your own h0rni-ness… relax.
You’re in very good company.
💋🌹
I write about desire, awkwardness, bodies, and the beautiful mess of being human.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your own h0rni-ness… relax.
You’re in very good company.
💋🌹
December 12, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Hi BlueSky… I’m Gia.
I write about desire, awkwardness, bodies, and the beautiful mess of being human.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your own h0rni-ness… relax.
You’re in very good company.
💋🌹
I write about desire, awkwardness, bodies, and the beautiful mess of being human.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your own h0rni-ness… relax.
You’re in very good company.
💋🌹