Gays & Confused
@gaysandconfused.bsky.social
A guide to travel, entertainment, food & drink, and living life for the gays and confused.
Time to kick off the new year with a new playlist. 🎶
I curated a collection of high energy bops to boost your adrenaline and stomp along to on the dance floor. Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
What are you listening to right now?
I curated a collection of high energy bops to boost your adrenaline and stomp along to on the dance floor. Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
What are you listening to right now?
January 8, 2026 at 11:08 PM
Time to kick off the new year with a new playlist. 🎶
I curated a collection of high energy bops to boost your adrenaline and stomp along to on the dance floor. Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
What are you listening to right now?
I curated a collection of high energy bops to boost your adrenaline and stomp along to on the dance floor. Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
What are you listening to right now?
Leaning into my #BookBro era 🌈
These are the first 3 LGBTQ+ reads for my #QueerBookClub this year. Join me if you want to read along and chat. One book a month, low pressure.
What’s on your #TBR this year?
These are the first 3 LGBTQ+ reads for my #QueerBookClub this year. Join me if you want to read along and chat. One book a month, low pressure.
What’s on your #TBR this year?
January 5, 2026 at 4:19 AM
Leaning into my #BookBro era 🌈
These are the first 3 LGBTQ+ reads for my #QueerBookClub this year. Join me if you want to read along and chat. One book a month, low pressure.
What’s on your #TBR this year?
These are the first 3 LGBTQ+ reads for my #QueerBookClub this year. Join me if you want to read along and chat. One book a month, low pressure.
What’s on your #TBR this year?
It was a school night but #MelanieC was DJing in Brooklyn, so I just had to be there! The GLITA Ball was a nonstop dance party that ended with a slow dance to 2 Become 1 and a Spice Girls drag show.
December 27, 2025 at 8:32 PM
It was a school night but #MelanieC was DJing in Brooklyn, so I just had to be there! The GLITA Ball was a nonstop dance party that ended with a slow dance to 2 Become 1 and a Spice Girls drag show.
I’m trying to soak up the holiday spirit with hot bevys, cozy fits, and kicking back with holiday movies. If you’re looking for some festive #QueerCinema, I’ve put together a list of 12 gay holiday movies to make your season merry and bright: bit.ly/4aQ1mZb
December 16, 2025 at 3:02 AM
I’m trying to soak up the holiday spirit with hot bevys, cozy fits, and kicking back with holiday movies. If you’re looking for some festive #QueerCinema, I’ve put together a list of 12 gay holiday movies to make your season merry and bright: bit.ly/4aQ1mZb
My brain is deep into Heated Rivalry and I was craving more MM romance reading with a holiday twist for the season. This week I started Recipe for Trouble, a grumpy/sunshine MM romance about food media and social video virality. #QueerBookClub #BookSky
December 14, 2025 at 1:12 AM
My brain is deep into Heated Rivalry and I was craving more MM romance reading with a holiday twist for the season. This week I started Recipe for Trouble, a grumpy/sunshine MM romance about food media and social video virality. #QueerBookClub #BookSky
The next book I'll be reading is Recipe for Trouble, an MM romance for the holidays 😍
If you want to join my #QueerBookClub, you can pick up the book here: bookshop.org/a/3689/97818... (affiliate link)
If you want to join my #QueerBookClub, you can pick up the book here: bookshop.org/a/3689/97818... (affiliate link)
Recipe for Trouble: A Grumpy/Sunshine Queer MM Romantic Comedy
A Grumpy/Sunshine Queer MM Romantic Comedy
bookshop.org
December 6, 2025 at 1:11 AM
The next book I'll be reading is Recipe for Trouble, an MM romance for the holidays 😍
If you want to join my #QueerBookClub, you can pick up the book here: bookshop.org/a/3689/97818... (affiliate link)
If you want to join my #QueerBookClub, you can pick up the book here: bookshop.org/a/3689/97818... (affiliate link)
I’m standing with our trans siblings in love and solidarity. If you’re an ally like me, use your voice, your wallet, and your vote to make the world safer for trans lives.
November 21, 2025 at 3:15 AM
I’m standing with our trans siblings in love and solidarity. If you’re an ally like me, use your voice, your wallet, and your vote to make the world safer for trans lives.
Hi babes, new playlist just dropped. Inspired by chillier nights and shorter days, I’ve curated a mix of dark and mid tempo dance songs.
Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
November 15, 2025 at 9:44 PM
Hi babes, new playlist just dropped. Inspired by chillier nights and shorter days, I’ve curated a mix of dark and mid tempo dance songs.
Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
Our work whether it be creative, political, or personal has weight and power to it. Do work that matters. Vale la pena.
November 12, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Our work whether it be creative, political, or personal has weight and power to it. Do work that matters. Vale la pena.
A little late for spooky season, but my new #QueerBookClub pick is “Black Flame” by In 1980s New York, we follow Ellen, a film archivist who’s restoring a cursed horror movie called “The Baroness.” I went to film school, so this premise really piqued my interest.
November 11, 2025 at 5:00 PM
A little late for spooky season, but my new #QueerBookClub pick is “Black Flame” by In 1980s New York, we follow Ellen, a film archivist who’s restoring a cursed horror movie called “The Baroness.” I went to film school, so this premise really piqued my interest.
Earlier this week, I finally had the chance to see #SophieEllisBextor in concert and it was a true disco dream!
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Earlier this week, I finally had the chance to see #SophieEllisBextor in concert and it was a true disco dream!
Went into Prince Faggot not fully knowing what to expect. It takes a look at what queerness looks like inside the halls of power. Get tickets before it closes December 13! bit.ly/3LrzDDy
Have you had a chance to see Prince Faggot? What were your thoughts?
Have you had a chance to see Prince Faggot? What were your thoughts?
November 6, 2025 at 11:00 PM
Went into Prince Faggot not fully knowing what to expect. It takes a look at what queerness looks like inside the halls of power. Get tickets before it closes December 13! bit.ly/3LrzDDy
Have you had a chance to see Prince Faggot? What were your thoughts?
Have you had a chance to see Prince Faggot? What were your thoughts?
A little behind schedule but we’ve finally reached the end of Giovanni’s Room. #QueerBookClub #BookSky
Hella’s finally back and David’s doing the absolute most to convince himself he’s straight and prove his masculinity. It’s unraveling Giovanni in the process.
Hella’s finally back and David’s doing the absolute most to convince himself he’s straight and prove his masculinity. It’s unraveling Giovanni in the process.
November 1, 2025 at 8:11 PM
A little behind schedule but we’ve finally reached the end of Giovanni’s Room. #QueerBookClub #BookSky
Hella’s finally back and David’s doing the absolute most to convince himself he’s straight and prove his masculinity. It’s unraveling Giovanni in the process.
Hella’s finally back and David’s doing the absolute most to convince himself he’s straight and prove his masculinity. It’s unraveling Giovanni in the process.
In need of last minute costume ideas. Please help 😧 #halloween
October 31, 2025 at 2:22 PM
In need of last minute costume ideas. Please help 😧 #halloween
Babes, we got so many great releases this week. What are you listening to?
#QueerMusicClub #NewMusicFriday
#QueerMusicClub #NewMusicFriday
October 25, 2025 at 6:50 PM
Babes, we got so many great releases this week. What are you listening to?
#QueerMusicClub #NewMusicFriday
#QueerMusicClub #NewMusicFriday
A few weeks ago, I caught one of the final shows of Julio Torres’ Color Theories, not an off-Broadway show but an East Village thing. It was like an origami dreamscape that’s part comedy and part art installation. Hope it streaming soon!
October 24, 2025 at 1:57 PM
A few weeks ago, I caught one of the final shows of Julio Torres’ Color Theories, not an off-Broadway show but an East Village thing. It was like an origami dreamscape that’s part comedy and part art installation. Hope it streaming soon!
TBH my Scorpio soul is fed by dark synth pop. To celebrate the spooky season I’ve updated the playlist with a collection of moody and dark but still danceable tracks.
What have you been listening to lately?
Take a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
What have you been listening to lately?
Take a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
October 13, 2025 at 2:33 PM
TBH my Scorpio soul is fed by dark synth pop. To celebrate the spooky season I’ve updated the playlist with a collection of moody and dark but still danceable tracks.
What have you been listening to lately?
Take a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
What have you been listening to lately?
Take a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy
Spending this rainy Saturday watching queer films with NewFest! I’ll be sharing my picks from the festival all weekend long.
Are you seeing any films at the festival or streaming with a virtual pass?
There’s still time to get yours: bit.ly/3VXNSlF #FilmSky
Are you seeing any films at the festival or streaming with a virtual pass?
There’s still time to get yours: bit.ly/3VXNSlF #FilmSky
October 12, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Spending this rainy Saturday watching queer films with NewFest! I’ll be sharing my picks from the festival all weekend long.
Are you seeing any films at the festival or streaming with a virtual pass?
There’s still time to get yours: bit.ly/3VXNSlF #FilmSky
Are you seeing any films at the festival or streaming with a virtual pass?
There’s still time to get yours: bit.ly/3VXNSlF #FilmSky
#SpookySeason is one of my favorite times of the year 👻 and to celebrate, I’m watching a few queer horror films. First up, 2022’s “They/Them,” a queer slasher from Blumhouse set in a conversion therapy camp.
It’s giving “But I’m a Cheerleader” meets “Friday the 13th” Spoilers ahead… #FilmSky
It’s giving “But I’m a Cheerleader” meets “Friday the 13th” Spoilers ahead… #FilmSky
October 7, 2025 at 8:16 PM
#SpookySeason is one of my favorite times of the year 👻 and to celebrate, I’m watching a few queer horror films. First up, 2022’s “They/Them,” a queer slasher from Blumhouse set in a conversion therapy camp.
It’s giving “But I’m a Cheerleader” meets “Friday the 13th” Spoilers ahead… #FilmSky
It’s giving “But I’m a Cheerleader” meets “Friday the 13th” Spoilers ahead… #FilmSky
A few days late, but I’m back with a check-in on Giovanni’s Room (pages 85–118). The layers of tension and unease are building and I’m struck by how David keeps circling the same fears and desires but never lands anywhere solid. #QueerBookClub #BookSky
October 6, 2025 at 1:57 PM
A few days late, but I’m back with a check-in on Giovanni’s Room (pages 85–118). The layers of tension and unease are building and I’m struck by how David keeps circling the same fears and desires but never lands anywhere solid. #QueerBookClub #BookSky
Okay, what other new music are you listening to today? #NewMusicFriday
October 3, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Okay, what other new music are you listening to today? #NewMusicFriday