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Gary Hampson
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Husband to Allison, Dad to Andrew and Evan. Vespa enthusiast. Long-suffering Chelsea FC and New York Red Bulls supporter. Opinions are my own and should be yours too.
Maybe I’m seeing things, but the pitch seems a bit smaller this year. #RBNY
March 1, 2025 at 11:53 PM
She’s gone.
February 14, 2025 at 7:08 AM
We’re entering the final days. Diane is completely unresponsive and is unable to eat or drink. She seems comfortable thanks to the fentanyl patches and morphine. Hospice nurse visits are now daily. She says that Diane can likely hear us but who knows if that’s true. Just awaiting the terrible call.
February 11, 2025 at 5:58 PM
The priest visited Diane today to administer last rites. I hope that that brought her some comfort and peace. We’re told she can hear us even if she’s unable to respond or open her eyes most of the time.
January 7, 2025 at 11:16 PM
Daily visits from the hospice nurse have started. She feels colder to the touch and her blood pressure is dropping. The end is near, I fear. I feel just so very sad. This photo was just a few months ago. You can barely recognize that this photo is the same person.
January 5, 2025 at 11:58 PM
As glad as I am to see the backside of 2024, I dread 2025, knowing that my sister will not be able to see its passing.
January 1, 2025 at 6:06 AM
Reposted by Gary Hampson
watching THE MUPPET CHRISTMAS CAROL with the kids and as has been noted by many, many people this is a world-class michael caine performance. like, one of the best of his career!
December 25, 2024 at 8:21 PM
I find myself welling up with tears at various points of the day. Had to dry my eyes before I picked up my iced matcha latte. It’s almost like I’m experiencing preemptive grief. I hate it.
November 28, 2024 at 1:51 AM
Decided about a week ago that I needed to go to therapy but the earliest appointment I was able to get is Dec 10th, so using BlueSky in the interim to vomit out all my troubles. Aren’t you happy you followed? I probably should have included a warning in my profile.
November 26, 2024 at 6:38 AM
The family and I saw my sister Sunday afternoon. She was in bed getting oxygen treatment but afterwards was able to get up and sit for a few hours before she needed to rest again. It’s hard seeing her like this and even harder knowing what’s coming.
November 26, 2024 at 6:29 AM
Just wrote a letter to my sister, who just started at-home hospice care. I’ll see her on Sunday, but I find that putting words on a page helps with making sure my words have intention and allow for reflection as I write. My hands were shaky and I had to squint through tears, but it’s done.
November 23, 2024 at 5:45 AM
Fuck cancer.
November 19, 2024 at 2:50 PM
@digkabri.bsky.social Here I sit, a 51 year old dude, watching your introductory NatGeo/Great Courses lecture series on Archaeology because it seems having a class with you made such an impact on my son, that he has decided on doing a minor in Archaeology.
January 3, 2024 at 4:42 AM
November 4, 2023 at 9:44 PM
November 4, 2023 at 9:19 PM
Macklemore speaking at this rally in DC was not on my bingo card. #freepalestine #ceasefirenow.
November 4, 2023 at 8:06 PM
Thousands of Muslims, Jews, and Christians, and others in solidarity, calling for an immediate ceasefire in Gaza and for the end of America’s financial support for Israel’s indiscriminate bombing of Palestinian civilians. #CeasefireNOW
November 4, 2023 at 8:05 PM