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Gary Borjesson
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psychotherapist | author | philosopher & recovering philosophy professor | friend of dogs | writer of a short weekly post on the art, science, and philosophy of helping relationships: Subscribe for free garyborjesson.substack.com
I post a short weekly note on Substack called How We Help. If you like this one, you can subscribe for free at garyborjesson.substack.com.
December 9, 2024 at 7:42 PM
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This week's note uses a story from a therapy session to explore the value of increasing our bodily awareness--something hard to do when we're overly busy, sedentary, and distracted by such alluringly immersive technology!
April 15, 2024 at 5:38 PM
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It's an amazing fact that all animals--even insects--use distancing from others as a way of feeling safe. This short note explains the phenomenon and how it applies to human critters!
April 15, 2024 at 5:34 PM
Ever wondered what exactly it means for therapy to be "psychodynamic"? In this week's note I offer a short primer--with a dash of Plato for deeper context.
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April 1, 2024 at 5:12 PM
This week's very short note offers a cool strategy for making the power and glory of the seasons a force in our personal lives and endeavors. Here's to fresh starts. Happy spring!
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March 25, 2024 at 3:24 PM
This week's short piece is about the value of making the unconscious conscious. How we do it; what makes it easier and harder to accomplish. It includes a personal story illustrating the process.
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March 20, 2024 at 4:26 PM
With Socrates' help, this week's note asks the thorny question of whether lying is ever therapeutic.
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March 11, 2024 at 3:28 PM
I’ve just posted this week’s piece, which is a dog story about how our dog held fast to truth when we would have preferred he lie a little! Enjoy!
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March 4, 2024 at 4:17 PM
Dogs don't do virtual relationships, obviously. In my short weekly note I look at how this reveals some of what we're missing when we do. Enjoy!
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February 26, 2024 at 4:39 PM
In this short piece I explore how the ways we connect can limit the use of our senses—and our mind—to build better alliances. This is a big deal for those of us who work closely and collaboratively with others. 
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February 19, 2024 at 4:42 PM
My short Monday morning note on How We Help is posted. This week I look at the meaning of being together, and how only recently in our history has being-together admitted of degrees! With huge consequences for our relationships. garyborjesson.substack.com/p/the-thickn...
February 12, 2024 at 4:36 PM
I’ve just posted my weekly Monday morning note on the art, science and philosophy of alliances. This one's for all of us who’ve doubted we could find a therapist smart enough to help us. The reality turns out to be different from the appearances!

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February 5, 2024 at 4:33 PM
My short weekly note on themes related to being a better ally just posted on Substack. It's easy and free to subscribe at garyborjesson.substack.com
January 29, 2024 at 7:14 PM
On Mondays I publish a short note on the art, science, and philosophy of helping relationships (doctors, therapists, teachers, mentors, etc). This note describes what the great psychologist Nietzsche says about using a hammer to become our true selves!
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January 22, 2024 at 4:24 PM
A recent article in the New Yorker profiles the growing movement of philosophical counseling. As a former philosophy professor and current psychotherapist, I offer some thoughts on the movement in this short note.
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January 16, 2024 at 1:17 AM
Greetings from 2024! Here's a little something to help ensure a happier new year! I hope you enjoy.
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January 1, 2024 at 1:48 AM
My inaugural post on bluesky comes with a spirit of renewal and hope for a warmly supportive engaged community. This is also reflected in the most recent very short note from my project on Substack called How We Help. You can read it here.
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December 28, 2023 at 12:54 AM