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Wish I could internalize this
brightwanderer I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned "forever" into the only acceptable definition of success. Like... if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it's a "failed" business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don't actually want to keep doing that, you're a "failed" writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it's a "failed" marriage. The only acceptable "win condition" is "you keep doing that thing forever". A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a "real" friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a "phase" - or, alternatively, a "pity" that you don't do that thing any more. A fandom is "dying" because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things. I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it's okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success... I don't think that's doing us any good at all.
October 30, 2025 at 1:34 PM
galumphybear.bsky.social
"Let's have our 8yo's birthday party at one of the local breweries!"
December 14, 2025 at 1:53 AM
galumphybear.bsky.social
🎵 I'm a paw watcher
I'm a paw watcher
Watchin' paws go by
My, my, my.

Big puffy fox toes
Yeah, I gotta watch those
Here come some now.
Mmm... Mmm, mmm... 🎵
December 13, 2025 at 4:00 AM
galumphybear.bsky.social
E!

Existential dread!
December 11, 2025 at 10:25 PM
galumphybear.bsky.social
Thank you, mau! Love you very much! 💙💙💙
November 29, 2025 at 4:09 PM