It's a mixed bag, but some providers will allow you to decline the pregnancy test on the basis of informed consent. Do you love your OBGYN? If not, might be worth shopping for another that would be a better listener to you.

Ahhh thank you so much!!

I just finished None of This Is True, which I think you recommended on the Avowed Triple Click episode - I loved it! I don't read much of this genre and I want more. Do you have a public good reads or similar with your recs?