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🇯🇵👨🏾‍🚀martin👨🏾‍🚀🇯🇵
@gaijinotousan.bsky.social
Deinfluencer Former New Yorker
living in rural Japan raising my son
I took my human to the beach

We spilled a tray of fried
oysters into the sand

a parent can
choose to not loose their
shit when the coveted
oysters are in the sand

My new iPhone fell into the
ocean this day
gone forever

I remained calm

My child said this was
the best beach day of his life
July 16, 2025 at 11:32 AM
The Shinkansen is
July 11, 2025 at 11:46 AM
Tokyo trains around midnight on a weekday
July 9, 2025 at 9:06 PM
❤️
July 8, 2025 at 3:10 AM
I walked to the corner and took this picture yesterday

This microscopic town and I are separating

I am moving on to another Japan

I don’t know where

but this extreme rural living is not sustainable

It’s beautiful here

It’s hypnotic

now

Is the time

to break

the trance
July 2, 2025 at 8:05 PM
What a beautiful kid❤️

My child has self selected friends now!

The American experience has fully embraced him

The Japanese adore him but they never actually embraced him 😢

Not a single birthday party invite in 4 years…..

It’s been beautiful in America.
It’s been the best❤️

Hard but glorious
July 1, 2025 at 4:06 AM
Liz! I am well
I am properly international!

My child blossomed in America!

I also had to handle two elderly parents with 50 years of domestic abuse

I’ve been in court

The child got a scholarship to a fancy school in the states.

The school has observatiory with a telescope!

It’s been real❤️
July 1, 2025 at 2:56 AM
❤️
June 29, 2025 at 10:09 PM
🇯🇵👨🏾‍🚀❤️ Is this where you all are these days? 👨🏾‍🚀❤️🇯🇵
December 1, 2024 at 3:21 PM
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The view of the mountains from the front yard this morning is worthy of applause.

Everyone in my tiny village here in Japan is so used to it that nobody looks up.

It’s like the cacophony of sound in New York City that the natives are oblivious to

🗽
October 19, 2023 at 10:34 PM
The garage of a house that was abandoned about a year ago basking in the afternoon sun yesterday
October 19, 2023 at 1:29 PM
🇯🇵 I just found this eraser. It probably cost ¥80 or so like 60¢ US. In Japan it would be unthinkable to take the lost eraser. I propped it up where someone could find it. The default is returning things/not stealing here. It’s wild. You can loose anything and have it returned 👨🏾‍🚀
October 14, 2023 at 2:32 AM
🇯🇵 I took a set of truly inspired pictures here in Japan yesterday. I am excited to share them 👨🏾‍🚀🇯🇵
October 11, 2023 at 8:13 AM
♥️
These are two portraits of
John Coltrane

On the left is his
United States Navy enlistment photo

The one on the right
Is the cover of an album
A Love Supreme
An album
that if listened to properly
allows one
to glimpse the face
of God herself

spotify.link/TSSGl7GlCDb
October 4, 2023 at 8:18 AM
what a kind face you have
September 24, 2023 at 8:53 AM