My therapist just suggested that I might manage better if I started viewing the US political shit show for what it really is, “White Man’s Last Stand,” and find joy in watching them stomp themselves out. The faster the better. I like it.

But her emails.

Good morning from Central Georgia, where it snows about once a decade. Grateful to have an unexpected break from the chaos of work and getting to spend more time with my girls, Tatum and Lola. ❤️

I’ve been out as a lesbian in my small Southern town since 1991. No problems, ever. But on the very day the felon took office my baby sister reports that she’s always had a problem with it and decides that I am no longer allowed to be around my 7 yo niece. Coincidence? Fuck all y’all bigot asses.

Standing up for yourself is not easy. Finally seeing that you are worthy and demanding that others treat you as such will test your theory. The people in your life who are afraid of doing the work that you’ve done to heal are going to buck. Stay strong. I see you. We got this.

BREAKING: The President-elect celebrates the victory he gained by scapegoating LGBTQ+ people — by dancing with six gay men to a song about homeless men turning tricks to survive.

I don’t know that I deserve them but I try every day to.