Thanks for the amazing work on my hole! We shall look forward to more mods and work in the future im sure!!

Pink therapy has a list of london therapists you can search on there for ones who understand and work with bdsm as well

But i think its important that even in the moment where your both horny. If someone shames your for these things. Thats not on you. Thats your body, its normal. Its ok. It happens. The shaming of you is on them. And they should learn.

Oh lord no. I know i'm less then perfect. I've learned and hopefully become better, i hope anyone im playing with can tell me im not doing it right and we stop, laugh, learn play again. I went through lots of shame in these areas and think we all need to learn there normal. But learning takes time.

Oh he took many fists that evening. Its hars to keep track. I should have kept the pen to mark him

I don't want to be rude but is that really that hard to remember. We are all human. If the person your playing with can't extend that basic decency to understand that today might not be your best day or that you need more care to do that thing then maybe thats on them and definitely not on you

Oh yeah, we are all human. we all can put so much pressure on ourselves. Ive had some first meetings with people where something has gone 'wrong', the abilty to understand and laugh it off has been the definitive factor in getting a second session that has led to awesome times purely due to trust.

Why do people forget that play is play. The best bits are when we are having fun, if you dont trust your partner enough to be cool with these absolutely normal things that can happen in a session then your not having fun. All of these things lead to more exploration of what works and more fun