frenchfriedtoes.bsky.social
@frenchfriedtoes.bsky.social
Coming to terms with the reality that sometimes, I can be a self absorbed asshole…yall should try it sometime…it can be freeing
May 26, 2025 at 5:12 PM
When dating men…you can’t let potential cloud your judgement…baby you gotta take off them rose colored glasses
April 30, 2025 at 9:28 PM
I recently discovered again that in some ways…I am the problem, and I’m sitting with the discomfort of it all in an attempt to ultimately make my piece with it
April 30, 2025 at 9:22 PM
It’s so crazy how thirsty many of these businesses are…like you can’t even casually look at a product anymore without your socials being flooded with targeted ads
April 30, 2025 at 9:20 PM
I need to befriend more neurospicy people aligned with me
April 30, 2025 at 9:16 PM
One day…perhaps not today…we’ll talk about how performative blackness especially surrounding the rigid expectations of being perceived as “cool” is not only robbing many black people of being their authentic self but also of true joy and community
April 30, 2025 at 9:08 PM
People without seasonal allergies are some of god’s favorite…currently contemplating how much I took for granted being able to breathe through my nostrils
April 25, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Also if you have anxiety…egocentricism will be your downfall
April 6, 2025 at 2:05 PM
One moment of maturity is realizing that sometimes you are the problem
April 6, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Idk …I feel like in certain situations it can be used as a convenient crutch to skirt accountability
March 9, 2025 at 5:37 PM
Taking patriarchy, oppressive systems, and nuance into play…I feel like there has to be room for a conversation where women can be called out for being or participating in harmful practices without it being seen as a dog pile
March 9, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Currently attempting a dating experiment where I only take earth signs seriously…will report back with some observations as time goes on
March 8, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Avocado is not that good, for it to be pressuring you to eat it in a short amount of time
March 7, 2025 at 10:33 PM
I feel like if you’re a black person and you have nary a black friend…there’s a high chance you have shitty racial identity politics or low racial self esteem 🙃
March 7, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Currently on the dating apps and whenever I see black people who have conservative or moderate in their profile…I low key think it’s a dog whistle for looking for a white partner 🤷🏿…cause like why?
March 7, 2025 at 7:36 PM
I’m trying to feel things…even though I hate and actively avoid trying to feel things
March 3, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Dreading my upcoming therapy session because I feel like I’m gonna have to break up with her
March 3, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Also the trick of sitting back, observing, and listening is a great technique for weeding out red flags…turns out they shine brightly when you’re actually paying attention…who knew
March 3, 2025 at 10:24 PM
After taking a long break…back in the dating game and I’ll say it’s great practice for mastering social interactions
March 3, 2025 at 10:22 PM
The one thing I’d say about being on dating apps is…never get your hopes up, put all your eggs in one basket, and remember that at the end of the day everyone is a stranger, no matter how great the chemistry or convo is
March 3, 2025 at 10:21 PM
Damn the Venus retrograde got to me…but I got a hold of myself before I crashed out
March 3, 2025 at 10:19 PM
I high key see this site as a fresh start…hoping to interact more, say what I truly feel, and be less of a lurker
January 31, 2025 at 1:57 AM
Twitter was getting way too reactive, rage-baity, and content farmy
January 29, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Hello…Bluesky 😁
January 29, 2025 at 7:50 PM