right :/ but apparently saying that in mixed company is a hot take.

me too 😓 i'll troll through my material and dm you if i see anything that feels particularly good. off the top of my head i think the sixth chapter in whipping girl talks about the intrinsic inclinations that make up sex informed gender expression + problematizes exactly what your teacher is doing.

do you want like academic / literature resources to combat her with? i'm sure i could pull something out of the archive.

i guess the thing is when you've dealt w like dangerous chasers someone who is just disrespectfully horny doesn't hit the same.

what helped me was reorienting my thoughts from like "i want to have fun" to "i want you to have fun" and then it started to become easier and i still have fun anyway (:

this is a really good thing to recognize about yourself and very easy to change.

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thats just not my experience. example: literally everyone who has ever physically attacked/threatened me for being a tw has been a black man. i dont blame black ppl or men. but when trans guys have harmed me in the past i guess it has felt actually personal, and historically i have not taken it well

that's valid. i'm asking partially bc i've been guilty of that, (and also to bully other tw into being better.) i've been traumatized by trans guys more than once and def didn't take it well. i'm sorry for whatever part i contributed to that, for whatever its worth.

okay stoic, for real this time, what sort of support can we offer that we aren't?

you will welcome The Dude, you will love The Dude

+1 we deserve so much better.

what sort of understanding do you want from trans women that you're not getting?

thank you for posting it there. i've gone to good (evil) surgeons before so i get it. i wouldn't begrudge any of the women who went to him.