Flutterbyagain
@flutterbyagain.bsky.social
Gen-Xer, 18+content, pan, poly, cis-f, she/her pronouns, IT person IRL, scifi, fantasy, tabletop game nerd, interested in recreational hypnosis
You did a great job! Looking forward to next year!
September 26, 2025 at 12:15 AM
You did a great job! Looking forward to next year!
Congratulations!
September 16, 2025 at 12:17 PM
Congratulations!
I would definitely not expect something the other person doesn't want.
February 1, 2025 at 2:33 AM
I would definitely not expect something the other person doesn't want.
No, sometimes, the idea of what is going to happen in my head doesn't match what happens, and that's because I didn't adequately describe what I was expecting. It's a problem of realizing that the other person and I weren't fully understanding each other.
February 1, 2025 at 2:33 AM
No, sometimes, the idea of what is going to happen in my head doesn't match what happens, and that's because I didn't adequately describe what I was expecting. It's a problem of realizing that the other person and I weren't fully understanding each other.
I've found that, often, my disappointment stems from un-communicated expectations. My first step, now, when disappointed is to interrogate myself. Then vow to be better at communicating next time. It's hard to do that in the midst of emotion.
January 31, 2025 at 10:33 PM
I've found that, often, my disappointment stems from un-communicated expectations. My first step, now, when disappointed is to interrogate myself. Then vow to be better at communicating next time. It's hard to do that in the midst of emotion.