OOOOOOOOOO YOU HAVE MY ATTENTION

Need life to stop being life right now but provided I can sort out my existence I'll put my little hat in the ring, this sounds fun! (And by fun, I mean probably devastating in parts but shh)

Awww BABY

<3 <3 <3

I'm still fistfighting the postal service to get a parcel to you. Pigeons are looking very ordered and sensible right about now. How does Lucas feel about birds? :P

Maybe a couple? Leave some to be claimed elsewhere :P

@_@

Literally always :P Especially if dotted. But I will always bow to a superior claim.

Universe says 'I see you, rambling'.

And JUST as I was writing a thread about asexuality! Perfect timing!

:O It's there! In the WILD

Maybe, maybe, MAYBE.
... IS.
Why am I asexual? Who knows, maybe I annoyed the Fae. AM I asexual? Yes.

Speaking as a traumatised person, sometimes I feel like I will never know what ‘caused’ my asexuality. But I also feel that about a lot of other things in my life. I like rock music. Maybe that spoke to the pain in me at the time. I craft, maybe that could be distracting from the thoughts.

Something that you don’t owe an explanation for. And if your answer is ‘I’m asexual because of trauma’, you are not hurting the rest of us. You are allowed to exist, just like all of the people who are asexual for a million other reasons are allowed.

So I apply that to my fellow aces, too. Your asexuality is something that you claim for reasons you know. It might be that you DO feel asexual purely because of trauma. That it’s produced a sex repulsion and lack of interest. And that’s still okay to claim.

That sometimes things happen to people that change them, and that even if that is the case, they look at whether that’s healthy for them, and if it is, it doesn’t matter a damn thing what other people think of it.

And vice versa. I don’t have to change my inherent asexuality, either. What I DO have to do is accept a form of myself that understands that the world is far more complicated than black and white.