Love this. I also don’t like to use domestic violence, i use domestic abuse - it encapsulates all forms of abuse rather than just the physical form.
However, I’ve debated many times about it being called domestic torture, the true definition of torture is exactly what us victims went/go through.

cheating is emotional abuse. Emotional abuse causes damage that takes 2/4 years for the brain to get over. Sometimes it leaves PTSD. There’s no debate.
Also, yes it does happen to other genders. I work for a lot of male survivors whilst simultaneously trying to change the law for them & females 🥰