A lot of those DNIs lump minority groups in with bigots and fascists too.

a world in which abuse or starvation or genocide or homelessness or drug use or suicide or severe mental illness or murder or sex is "adult content" is one in which children's experiences are rendered shameful and explicit and the people who experience it are no longer allowed to be children

update to this, had a word with the owner a bit ago and i believe it was more of a language barrier issue, has been resolved now. apologies for the confusion caused by the previous phrasing!

you're absolutely free to be whoever and whatever you want to be, there's no requirements of any kind in terms of that!

beats me, if i'm being honest. the owner of nyaw seems relatively new to the scene. the place seems completely fine to me but i'm intending to address this odd phrasing some time soon.

if you want to play it safe, feral bond's owner has been around the community for a couple years already.

just make sure to mention where you've heard about the place once you apply for an account, tell us a little about yourself, and give us a point of reference (like a username you use on another platform) so we can form a better picture of what you're like in order to keep out bad actors.

it matters much more what a label means to someone who identifies with it than what it means to someone who dislikes said label.