That's really lovely.

I'm considering it, but two young cats.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

No, I mean they present themselves that way and I'm cool with that. I'm definitely not asking what's in people's underwear. Not my business. And I will ask for pronouns as a guide to how they choose to present themselves.

Yeah, don't like that, probably because I'm not very feminine myself and nor are a lot of my friends. It's tricksy and I suspect we can't please all the people all of the time.

I'm happy for people to tell me that's what they personally prefer and I'll do my utmost to use it for them though.

Oh good first post!

I just wrote: if I must.

Addendum: what do we think about female presenting? It's might be the scientist in me, but woman presenting just sounds like Claudia Winkleman or someone.