discovered their job is amazing, important and caring. In the end we had a wonderful conversation. These two actions completely changed my mindset and allowed me to fully enjoy myself, apposed to the miserable time I was going to have. Thank you Jefferson!

I followed the 2nd and 3rd suggestions over Thanksgiving. It worked wonderfully. I was in knots about being around a family member that had previously upset me so much I couldn’t let it go. I was so sour at the start of the gathering but, decided to ask them about their job.