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I've been there, so many times.

I seriously wish there was a way i could come visit. Remind me after this week and i will toss some canadian agencies at you to find out if any are near you so i can slooot myself out to become their resident sys admin, or on a project for them, or something.
November 28, 2025 at 12:17 AM
you could try to get a part time job somewhere you are doing for enrichment, not 'needing' the pay, if that is your situation. I think what fucks us over is 'you take a good thing, and force it to be the way you pay bills, and suddenly it's miserable, day in, day out.'
November 27, 2025 at 10:59 PM
you're missing my snout right between those cheeks, 'spotting' you.
November 27, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Holy hell I want that whole outfit. Where did you get the top and jock?

Also, jeeze, you look fucking amazing. Body goals.
November 27, 2025 at 9:25 PM
You joke, but i would LOVE something to keep my dickhead wet and protected while I sleep. I use a restoration thing a few days a week (can't use it too much yet or skin blisters from the tugging) and when i first take it off, my dick glistens, and feels amazing when touched.
November 27, 2025 at 6:15 PM
I've had decent luck with porn, and meeting new friends to find at events, just know that we dont have nearly as many bots here, so you'll never see the 'huge' numbers you do on ig or x, but the people who do follow you are...actually people lol
November 27, 2025 at 3:47 AM
Thank you
November 26, 2025 at 4:04 PM
Thank you!
November 26, 2025 at 12:59 PM
I wish I lived closer. This is exactly what could help me go from 'textbook ASL' to actually closer to conversational. I will keep an eye out at future cons to see if anything like this has a social/panel.
November 26, 2025 at 3:37 AM
I'm going deaf due to illness, already reliant on bone-conductive headphones for work, I struggle to make out words regardless of volume, and both of us struggle with volume accentuation/regulation due to hearing loss.

We're looking for resources to learn ASL. Any advice how to respectfully do so?
November 26, 2025 at 3:35 AM
I came here to say that, too haha
November 26, 2025 at 2:35 AM
When they go low, we go cry.
November 26, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Well, this was from 1998-2004, but I know the 'code' at Blake's on the Park (Atlanta) was subtly different than Oz (New Orleans) and a LOT more concise.

I'm sorry but in club lighting nobody can tell Robin's Egg, Royal, Navy, Teal, and Dark Blue.

It's Light (oral) or Dark (anal) LOL
November 25, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Stephen Miller steps outside, eyes growing white and all the grass around him turning brown, then to ash, as the clouds reshape into
"AOC Dies"
November 25, 2025 at 2:07 PM
I am very old, and remember the hanky code from back in Atlanta at Backstreet and Blake's. Is there a good guide for what is accepted as the definitions today? Google is...verbose..with some real bullshit.
November 25, 2025 at 12:49 AM
That's the plan.
November 24, 2025 at 9:19 PM
*hugs tight* As someone who has been on both sides of the CCU curtain, I get it. Take however long you need. We're here.
November 24, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Me; OMG I have to share that with Saf
..you were the one that posted it LOL
November 24, 2025 at 12:21 AM