I wouldn't have transitioned if not for Gitarre. She's gorgeous and hideous and a core part of me now.

So when I hop into duty finder and 4/10 times get called The Joker... 😭

I have the same problem and running palace of the dead from floor one helps a lot

failing that just try sequential dungeons to get an abbreviated version of that

i don't know you but I'm glad to see the positivity I keep seeing on bluesky. thanks for adding to the positivity 💜

For the record I'm not getting into it save for this: I have a personal policy to avoid public criticism of trans women and I think anyone who considers themselves an ally should consider the same. It is too easy to HAL someone.

assigned girlfailure at tumblr 😔

excited for dawntrail and wondering if it's finally time to heal.

Zenos REALLY knows and this deeply concerns Gitarre.

Emet-Selch doesn't know until after the Dying Gasp, but Hyth immediately figures it out.

Elidibus knew but forgot.

General timeline consequences about the switch: Ardbert knows, Hydaelyn knows, G'raha was easily tricked, Estinien knows, the rest of the scions are in on it. City-state leaders vary.

Lyse knows, is offended, and really wants to say something about it but the other scions just give her a look.

That said while he didn't crack Gitarre's egg, he did shock her into formally coming out (she thought she was doing well at boymoding).

So timeline is roughly:
Patch 2.4: Meets Moenbryda & joins polycule
Patch 2.55: Bonds with Urianger
Patch 4.O: WoL dies
Patch 4.O: Gitarre replaces and comes out

Beyond that, the former WoL was early in transition and a grieving Thancred, who is not quite on the up and up re:queer theory, figured the pre-transition Gitarre could easily fill in, given their similar (read:masculine) features.

Thancred got better. He wasn't a complete asshole, just unfamiliar.

Gitarre is a goldsmith by trade who came to Mor Dhona pre-transition by invite of Tataru to help with the construction on Revenant's Toll. While there, she met Moenbryda joining in a hinge relationship with Moen as the pivot. After the events of 2.5, she and Urianger bonded platonically.