Femme In Theory
@femmeintheory.bsky.social
Queer femme neurodivergent autoimmune CD/grad student/multidisc. artist exploring ideas of anti-work, care, & family. Critical + creative writing & performance. ryanashleyanderson.com ///SUBSTACK /// https://bit.ly/4fDlai1
#sexwork #writing #criticism
#sexwork #writing #criticism
A favorite from the title essay:
“On two occasions around that time [2000], I objected to the behavior of a man, only to be told that the incidents hadn’t happened at all as I had said, that I was subjective, delusional, overwrought, dishonest—in a nutshell, female.” — @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social
“On two occasions around that time [2000], I objected to the behavior of a man, only to be told that the incidents hadn’t happened at all as I had said, that I was subjective, delusional, overwrought, dishonest—in a nutshell, female.” — @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social
November 15, 2025 at 11:01 PM
A favorite from the title essay:
“On two occasions around that time [2000], I objected to the behavior of a man, only to be told that the incidents hadn’t happened at all as I had said, that I was subjective, delusional, overwrought, dishonest—in a nutshell, female.” — @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social
“On two occasions around that time [2000], I objected to the behavior of a man, only to be told that the incidents hadn’t happened at all as I had said, that I was subjective, delusional, overwrought, dishonest—in a nutshell, female.” — @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social
You win some, you lose some.
April 1, 2025 at 8:43 PM
You win some, you lose some.
Always astounded when I get chats like this from customers. And I love using the opportunity to put my feminism into action.
March 29, 2025 at 4:19 PM
Always astounded when I get chats like this from customers. And I love using the opportunity to put my feminism into action.
Goddess, if you’re taking requests, I want to be reincarnated as this dog after I die.
March 11, 2025 at 6:11 PM
Goddess, if you’re taking requests, I want to be reincarnated as this dog after I die.
Thrilled to start the week w/ an acceptance from Farewell Transmission. RUNOFF takes place in the rural south, where weekly trips to the gumball machines & magazine aisle of our Piggly Wiggly grocery store felt like an adventure. Can’t wait to share it with you … 📺🌾🐶 Lookout for issue 4. #CNF
March 11, 2025 at 4:43 PM
Thrilled to start the week w/ an acceptance from Farewell Transmission. RUNOFF takes place in the rural south, where weekly trips to the gumball machines & magazine aisle of our Piggly Wiggly grocery store felt like an adventure. Can’t wait to share it with you … 📺🌾🐶 Lookout for issue 4. #CNF
Me if I were a #whitelotus character (note the arms). Also, has anything happened this season? I feel like I’m lost in an infommercial for an essential oil MLM, and several episodes in, I’m still trying to figure out what I get from the deal 🙃
March 10, 2025 at 2:47 PM
Me if I were a #whitelotus character (note the arms). Also, has anything happened this season? I feel like I’m lost in an infommercial for an essential oil MLM, and several episodes in, I’m still trying to figure out what I get from the deal 🙃
PSA: I am unsubscribing from all marketing emails from B2C brands today who have anything about the time change in the subject line. It’s literally the lamest reason for an email & also totally unnecessarily. That shit is auto these days. Find a more interesting way to harass loyal customers.
March 9, 2025 at 8:16 PM
PSA: I am unsubscribing from all marketing emails from B2C brands today who have anything about the time change in the subject line. It’s literally the lamest reason for an email & also totally unnecessarily. That shit is auto these days. Find a more interesting way to harass loyal customers.
Where have I been for the last 24 hours? Reading this book. Can’t remember the last time I devoured something so fast and cannot wait to meditate on it. Now off to see Thelma & Louise!
Pre-order THE ORGANIZATION IS HERE TO SUPPORT YOU by @charleneelsby.bsky.social bf it sells out! bit.ly/41BYx7M
Pre-order THE ORGANIZATION IS HERE TO SUPPORT YOU by @charleneelsby.bsky.social bf it sells out! bit.ly/41BYx7M
March 8, 2025 at 11:41 PM
Where have I been for the last 24 hours? Reading this book. Can’t remember the last time I devoured something so fast and cannot wait to meditate on it. Now off to see Thelma & Louise!
Pre-order THE ORGANIZATION IS HERE TO SUPPORT YOU by @charleneelsby.bsky.social bf it sells out! bit.ly/41BYx7M
Pre-order THE ORGANIZATION IS HERE TO SUPPORT YOU by @charleneelsby.bsky.social bf it sells out! bit.ly/41BYx7M
Stoked to participate at this @maudlinhouse.bsky.social reading during #awp25!! And with band Movie Club playing live throughout, no less 🤩 RSVP: www.eventbrite.com/e/awps-loude...
March 6, 2025 at 9:15 PM
Stoked to participate at this @maudlinhouse.bsky.social reading during #awp25!! And with band Movie Club playing live throughout, no less 🤩 RSVP: www.eventbrite.com/e/awps-loude...
Reading and writing in bed with these two 😍
March 5, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Reading and writing in bed with these two 😍
Very thankful for last night’s much-needed talk by @susanstryker.bsky.social at PNCA!! There was mention of a public Spotify profile but can’t find it. Anyone have the link? 👀
March 5, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Very thankful for last night’s much-needed talk by @susanstryker.bsky.social at PNCA!! There was mention of a public Spotify profile but can’t find it. Anyone have the link? 👀
I can’t stand when dudes with above average-sized cocks try to solicit me for SPH (small penis humiliation). Like, bro, pretending your dick is tiny is literally boring. Get a hobby. And yes, these are always white dudes, probably trying to invent trauma so they can pretend to be marginalized.
March 2, 2025 at 4:49 AM
I can’t stand when dudes with above average-sized cocks try to solicit me for SPH (small penis humiliation). Like, bro, pretending your dick is tiny is literally boring. Get a hobby. And yes, these are always white dudes, probably trying to invent trauma so they can pretend to be marginalized.
Definitely not happy to be inside on this rare sunny afternoon. But my iron levels are apparently on par with those of a dead person, so … doctor’s orders 🫡
February 28, 2025 at 11:32 PM
Definitely not happy to be inside on this rare sunny afternoon. But my iron levels are apparently on par with those of a dead person, so … doctor’s orders 🫡
Is 6:45a too early to start reading from the Journal of British Society for Phenomenology?
February 25, 2025 at 2:44 PM
Is 6:45a too early to start reading from the Journal of British Society for Phenomenology?
It is such a fucking honor to read our @poolpartymag.com submissions on such a beautiful snow day! I don’t take the responsibility lightly and am really feeling very elated by all the wonderful subs and support. Keep ‘em coming! poolpartymag.com/literary-jou...
February 14, 2025 at 5:30 PM
It is such a fucking honor to read our @poolpartymag.com submissions on such a beautiful snow day! I don’t take the responsibility lightly and am really feeling very elated by all the wonderful subs and support. Keep ‘em coming! poolpartymag.com/literary-jou...
Find someone who makes you feel like you can do anything. V grateful to have @kevinrmaloney.bsky.social in my life 💕
February 13, 2025 at 2:18 PM
Find someone who makes you feel like you can do anything. V grateful to have @kevinrmaloney.bsky.social in my life 💕
Remember that time I was a home shopping show host on live national television? Ew I know. I have stories 🩸
February 10, 2025 at 1:27 AM
Remember that time I was a home shopping show host on live national television? Ew I know. I have stories 🩸
FYI. But fr, period cups are actually amazing. Haven’t paid for a tampon in 13 years.
February 5, 2025 at 1:53 AM
FYI. But fr, period cups are actually amazing. Haven’t paid for a tampon in 13 years.
Moment$ of Care. Learn about this project at ryanashleyanderson.com/visual-art/
February 3, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Moment$ of Care. Learn about this project at ryanashleyanderson.com/visual-art/
Practicing curiosity allows you to notice things you might otherwise not. Like the oil paintings of unhappy strangers in my living room. They look quite pleasing through the bottom of an empty wine glass. Thank goodness I took the time to look around the room with it pressed against my eye 🙃
February 3, 2025 at 12:13 AM
Practicing curiosity allows you to notice things you might otherwise not. Like the oil paintings of unhappy strangers in my living room. They look quite pleasing through the bottom of an empty wine glass. Thank goodness I took the time to look around the room with it pressed against my eye 🙃
Playing Tetris while a guy says “Oh fuck! Oh fuck!” over and over again while talking to me about his dildo 🤷♀️
January 30, 2025 at 4:14 AM
Playing Tetris while a guy says “Oh fuck! Oh fuck!” over and over again while talking to me about his dildo 🤷♀️
Rhythmically groaning while tuning out from the guy who’s telling me he wants to eat my a** so I can read this coming-of-age piece by Stephen Van Dyck. And there it is. Phone s*x. It’s everywhere. #creativenonfiction
January 29, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Rhythmically groaning while tuning out from the guy who’s telling me he wants to eat my a** so I can read this coming-of-age piece by Stephen Van Dyck. And there it is. Phone s*x. It’s everywhere. #creativenonfiction
Kevin and I scoped #grandgesturebooks for our Feb. 11 reading today! While we were there, I made some choice purchases with money earned directly from a caller who spent two hours of his phone sex time trying to convince me that women shouldn’t vote and that Mu$k didn’t do a naz* salute 🙃 🖕
January 26, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Kevin and I scoped #grandgesturebooks for our Feb. 11 reading today! While we were there, I made some choice purchases with money earned directly from a caller who spent two hours of his phone sex time trying to convince me that women shouldn’t vote and that Mu$k didn’t do a naz* salute 🙃 🖕