That really resonates thank you for sharing that perspective. There’s a lot of wisdom in learning to feel safe in your own skin over time. Happy to keep the conversation going anytime feel free to DM.

This really hits especially that part about feeling safe enough to just be yourself do you think that comes with time or certain people

Now that’s a hello Worth stopping the scroll for

There’s something about the eye contact you describe that makes this linger Long after scrolling past

Transparency and records matter. Oversight only works if the paper trail is intact.

Definitely not what you expect to see while ordering lunch.

There’s a real risk of that, especially when “culture fit” isn’t clearly defined. It can easily become a proxy for comfort rather than contribution.

Love seeing this kind of support and community here.

History has a way of forcing uncomfortable questions about complacency and how easily people normalize things they shouldn’t.

It’s hard to look at numbers like that and not wonder how oversight broke down along the way.

Blue Sky didn’t even wait for the first post. Speedrun ban any percent.

Somehow it always fits even when it absolutely doesn’t.