In the years I've leaved there have never run out of oil but she freaks out about it like I understand it can cause a problem but onec again its never run out. This stress is wearing us down and we are struggling to find a place thats okay with cats but they are family so we wont move without them.

Well the landlord did an inspection of our apartment and was happy with how everything looked even after lossing it on me for how she assumed the placed look ( had boxes out for donating and packing summer stuff up) she is also pushing me nonstop about oil which I pay for she doesn't.

I feel like nighttime brain is just my brain 24/7

I have small rays of hope with people we have a friend who offered to take in the cats for a short while we try to get stuff moved and in order. This year has some a lot of ups and downs I just hope next year is better.

My husband and I are both working two jobs and reaching out to anyone we can think of who can help. I'm hoping something positive happens because his year has taken so much from me.

It seems fishy for sure

Roast beef sandwich 🥪 😅

Cheddar and Link enjoying a snow day.

Looks great. You just need a comfortable spot to read in, and it's the perfect room.