Sounds like someone hasn’t come out the closet on how he prefers his women to look. He said “daddy wants you in a cute choker,” at least that’s what I read in between the lines. Go off queen.

The mycologist in me is very happy

Remember love, apples to oranges; every transition is unique, just as yours is. Don’t worry about the online bs. Live your best life and be the authentic you. You’re never alone =]