“become a fish “(gay)
emeryotter.bsky.social
“become a fish “(gay)
@emeryotter.bsky.social
Okay so are you gonna fuck the therapist?
November 15, 2025 at 7:35 AM
This sucks, are you gonna fuck the therapist?
November 15, 2025 at 1:58 AM
I also don’t understand if it’s for sale?
November 13, 2025 at 11:32 PM
If what Driving Desires Toys did is doxxing adjacent, what do you consider doxxing to be, and how is what they did different?
November 13, 2025 at 11:32 PM
I’m going fucking insane. What could there possibly be that you haven’t shared as to “””your problem””” like, what else is going on in your life that could POSSIBLY absolve you of being the issue here?
September 11, 2025 at 3:41 AM
He might actually listen considering it’s a man saying this
September 11, 2025 at 3:38 AM
Yay :))))
September 10, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Okay so taking this in good faith (which,) I can tell you that there isn’t a single AFAB person (including my wife, NOT including me, a trans) that read this that didn’t think it was about you saying they can’t be fat. This is part of the problem!!!!!!!!
September 9, 2025 at 10:39 PM
Loving the roller coaster comment here
September 9, 2025 at 10:24 PM
I think you’re projecting
September 9, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Hobby groups are even usually free!!! Find a library with a craft group or a place with a discussion group or SOMETHING"
September 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Disney chars they're fans of, if nothing else! And people are usually happy to hear about their friends' hobbies even if they don't share them! It will really be okay to find a hobby group for something you're interested in -- whatever that is -- and also chat about Zootopia
September 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
and fulfilling relationships with others outside of furry IN GENERAL), and he doesn't ever listen

And no the gym doesn't count, that's a solo activity

If the furry thing REALLY IS nonsexual for him, plenty of people would be down to talk about anthro characters -- heck most people have
September 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
From my wife:

"Like. I have watched multiple women tell him exactly what he's not doing (not being open to genuine friendships with women, not being open to someone outside the furry fandom who is still supportive of his interests, not getting out and joining hobby groups/building friendships
September 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
they're saying because you think it's easier to go to the gym than find another hobby or someone that is outside of furry. But idk, maybe you disregard them because they're not the kind of woman you'd actually date (queer, trans, mentally ill, take your pick)
September 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
a sincere post is, the thing that kills me is how consistently you keep disregarding the advice you get, and not just from everyone that replies, but from *actual fucking women* that know what they're talking about that you seemingly want to date. How many times are you going to just ignore what
September 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
I’m sure there are many girls who are “on your level” I guess but I can assure you the problem isn’t that they’re hiding, the problem is internal Barkley. Please look inward and go to therapy instead of blaming the fandom. Also dear god get another hobby
September 6, 2025 at 2:19 AM
Just another sincere question I don’t expect to get answered, do you think there is anything you could improve about yourself?
July 27, 2025 at 11:36 PM
And it seems like all of that was work for a wage, not working on yourself which idk, couldn’t be me? I like to improve myself
July 27, 2025 at 11:24 PM
In the most respectful way possible: this whole attitude is the problem and I have no idea what the fuck you’re talking about. How do you think people get to know each other???
July 27, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Okay? What about *now*? That’s your childhood and 12 years ago but like…what have you done since then?
July 27, 2025 at 11:18 PM
Legitimately earnest question: do you think it’s impossible for you to make friends outside of the fandom, and if so: why is that impossible
July 27, 2025 at 11:15 PM
…make friends outside of furry? Idk what to tell you my man but it’s not like this is the only social avenue despite the fact that you keep treating it as such. If that was the case, wouldn’t everyone be a furry?
July 27, 2025 at 11:14 PM