This just happens to most games, at least subtextually. That probably says more about the groups I play with than anything else though.

This is almost verbatim how I met one of my people

Have done this, highly recommend

Not cis but i do occasionally force my cis friend to read transgressive queer erotica as a form of social experiment/entertainment

This is how she got me into siscon, ngl

Wait till you get a chance to see me in heels

This is a source for why the oral route is less effective at least. Boofing it works great for me though.
transfemscience.org/articles/ora...

Many depths to be plumbed with the concept of butch maid please continue

For me there's definitely overlap, but it's more frequently a social dynamic/masking and communication thing. Definitely is really fun when it involves kink, but it's not the majority of the time.

Truly an icon

Men's toilets are for nasty duke fucking, women's toilets are for peeing and doing coke