ELLASAID
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Unpaused.
Reimagining space, love, work, life.
Hit play.
By EllSaid (AKA Pamella Lee).
https://open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid?r=5fzreo&utm_medium=ios
Reimagining space, love, work, life.
Hit play.
By EllSaid (AKA Pamella Lee).
https://open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid?r=5fzreo&utm_medium=ios
Not angry. Just done.
With shrinking.
With softening.
With doing the work so others don’t have to.
This isn’t about rage.
It’s about clarity.
Unpaused: This Isn’t About Rage
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #DoneShrinking #BoundariesAreLove #ThisIsWhatSheSaid
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With shrinking.
With softening.
With doing the work so others don’t have to.
This isn’t about rage.
It’s about clarity.
Unpaused: This Isn’t About Rage
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #DoneShrinking #BoundariesAreLove #ThisIsWhatSheSaid
ellasaid.substack.com/p/this-isnt-...
This Isn't About Rage
I’ve been checking in with myself lately.
ellasaid.substack.com
May 22, 2025 at 3:21 AM
Not angry. Just done.
With shrinking.
With softening.
With doing the work so others don’t have to.
This isn’t about rage.
It’s about clarity.
Unpaused: This Isn’t About Rage
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #DoneShrinking #BoundariesAreLove #ThisIsWhatSheSaid
ellasaid.substack.com/p/this-isnt-...
With shrinking.
With softening.
With doing the work so others don’t have to.
This isn’t about rage.
It’s about clarity.
Unpaused: This Isn’t About Rage
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #DoneShrinking #BoundariesAreLove #ThisIsWhatSheSaid
ellasaid.substack.com/p/this-isnt-...
I avoided it for years.
In 2019, I stopped.
Had the hysterectomy.
Bought white jeans.
Never wore them.
But I kept the freedom.
Unpaused: The Year I Removed the Problem
Now live on ELLASAID.
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #HysterectomyJourney #RealRecovery
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-year-i...
In 2019, I stopped.
Had the hysterectomy.
Bought white jeans.
Never wore them.
But I kept the freedom.
Unpaused: The Year I Removed the Problem
Now live on ELLASAID.
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #HysterectomyJourney #RealRecovery
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-year-i...
The Year I Removed the Problem
I spent years avoiding it.
ellasaid.substack.com
May 14, 2025 at 4:38 PM
I avoided it for years.
In 2019, I stopped.
Had the hysterectomy.
Bought white jeans.
Never wore them.
But I kept the freedom.
Unpaused: The Year I Removed the Problem
Now live on ELLASAID.
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #HysterectomyJourney #RealRecovery
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-year-i...
In 2019, I stopped.
Had the hysterectomy.
Bought white jeans.
Never wore them.
But I kept the freedom.
Unpaused: The Year I Removed the Problem
Now live on ELLASAID.
#Unpaused #ELLASAID #HysterectomyJourney #RealRecovery
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-year-i...
Welcome to another Monday. Taurus energy and observations, filed. #fieldnotes #unpaused #ellasaid #taurusseason
ellasaid.substack.com/p/fieldnotes...
ellasaid.substack.com/p/fieldnotes...
Fieldnotes
Monday, April 21, 2025
ellasaid.substack.com
April 21, 2025 at 5:20 PM
Welcome to another Monday. Taurus energy and observations, filed. #fieldnotes #unpaused #ellasaid #taurusseason
ellasaid.substack.com/p/fieldnotes...
ellasaid.substack.com/p/fieldnotes...
It’s wild what starts to simmer and surface when you begin to write — and remember. Old memories. Old wounds.
So yes — my unpausing takes some detours.
But it always comes back.
ellasaid.substack.com/p/to-all-the...
#Unpaused #ELLASAID
So yes — my unpausing takes some detours.
But it always comes back.
ellasaid.substack.com/p/to-all-the...
#Unpaused #ELLASAID
To All the Girls Who Got Away With It
Unpausing doesn’t move in straight lines.
ellasaid.substack.com
April 19, 2025 at 7:46 PM
It’s wild what starts to simmer and surface when you begin to write — and remember. Old memories. Old wounds.
So yes — my unpausing takes some detours.
But it always comes back.
ellasaid.substack.com/p/to-all-the...
#Unpaused #ELLASAID
So yes — my unpausing takes some detours.
But it always comes back.
ellasaid.substack.com/p/to-all-the...
#Unpaused #ELLASAID
A playlist made for that in-between hour.
Warm, slow, and glinting with softness.
Think sunkissed sidewalks, windows cracked, something cooking on the stove.
A perfect soundtrack to get ready for Spring.
Let it play.
#weekly #ellasaid #unpaused
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Warm, slow, and glinting with softness.
Think sunkissed sidewalks, windows cracked, something cooking on the stove.
A perfect soundtrack to get ready for Spring.
Let it play.
#weekly #ellasaid #unpaused
open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid...
ELLASAID #3 — Golden Hour
A sunkissed blend of soul, jazz, and dream-pop for the late afternoon mood.
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April 18, 2025 at 2:05 PM
A playlist made for that in-between hour.
Warm, slow, and glinting with softness.
Think sunkissed sidewalks, windows cracked, something cooking on the stove.
A perfect soundtrack to get ready for Spring.
Let it play.
#weekly #ellasaid #unpaused
open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid...
Warm, slow, and glinting with softness.
Think sunkissed sidewalks, windows cracked, something cooking on the stove.
A perfect soundtrack to get ready for Spring.
Let it play.
#weekly #ellasaid #unpaused
open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid...
The #unpausedseries is on a roll. It’s real. Raw. And pretty powerful. Tell your story. Don’t let others take a position of hierarchy in order to dim your light and make your story seem insignificant. #ellasaid #writingfromthemiddle #unpause
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-long-w...
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-long-w...
April 17, 2025 at 3:08 AM
The #unpausedseries is on a roll. It’s real. Raw. And pretty powerful. Tell your story. Don’t let others take a position of hierarchy in order to dim your light and make your story seem insignificant. #ellasaid #writingfromthemiddle #unpause
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-long-w...
ellasaid.substack.com/p/the-long-w...
Observations from the past week: ellasaid.substack.com/p/fieldnotes...
April 14, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Observations from the past week: ellasaid.substack.com/p/fieldnotes...
We post to be seen.
If you block or delete when facts challenge you, you’re not protecting truth — you’re avoiding it.
Opinion isn’t truth.
Misinformation isn’t debate.
Grow. Don’t echo.
#cdnpoli #Election2025 #FactsMatter
If you block or delete when facts challenge you, you’re not protecting truth — you’re avoiding it.
Opinion isn’t truth.
Misinformation isn’t debate.
Grow. Don’t echo.
#cdnpoli #Election2025 #FactsMatter
April 11, 2025 at 10:05 PM
We post to be seen.
If you block or delete when facts challenge you, you’re not protecting truth — you’re avoiding it.
Opinion isn’t truth.
Misinformation isn’t debate.
Grow. Don’t echo.
#cdnpoli #Election2025 #FactsMatter
If you block or delete when facts challenge you, you’re not protecting truth — you’re avoiding it.
Opinion isn’t truth.
Misinformation isn’t debate.
Grow. Don’t echo.
#cdnpoli #Election2025 #FactsMatter
A new curated playlist for your weekend endeavours. #ellasaid #weekly #playlist
ellasaid.substack.com/p/ellasaid-2...
ellasaid.substack.com/p/ellasaid-2...
ELLASAID #2 — After Midnight
Curated for the quiet ache of nostalgia.
ellasaid.substack.com
April 11, 2025 at 5:18 PM
A new curated playlist for your weekend endeavours. #ellasaid #weekly #playlist
ellasaid.substack.com/p/ellasaid-2...
ellasaid.substack.com/p/ellasaid-2...
Wednesday #unpausedseries continues. A post from Elizabeth Gilbert changed the trajectory of my life. And no, it’s no eat, pray, love story. That happened in 2009. open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid...
April 9, 2025 at 9:05 PM
Wednesday #unpausedseries continues. A post from Elizabeth Gilbert changed the trajectory of my life. And no, it’s no eat, pray, love story. That happened in 2009. open.substack.com/pub/ellasaid...
ELLASAID #1 — Playlist Drop
My first playlist drop for you all to enjoy. Set a mood for the upcoming weekend; enjoy some new tunes…this playlist was my first curation on spotify many years ago. I hope you enjoy it: open.spotify.com/playlist/5dI...
My first playlist drop for you all to enjoy. Set a mood for the upcoming weekend; enjoy some new tunes…this playlist was my first curation on spotify many years ago. I hope you enjoy it: open.spotify.com/playlist/5dI...
ELLASAID #1
Playlist · ELLASAID · 48 items
open.spotify.com
April 6, 2025 at 6:19 AM
ELLASAID #1 — Playlist Drop
My first playlist drop for you all to enjoy. Set a mood for the upcoming weekend; enjoy some new tunes…this playlist was my first curation on spotify many years ago. I hope you enjoy it: open.spotify.com/playlist/5dI...
My first playlist drop for you all to enjoy. Set a mood for the upcoming weekend; enjoy some new tunes…this playlist was my first curation on spotify many years ago. I hope you enjoy it: open.spotify.com/playlist/5dI...
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I don’t trust Oprah to have an accurate discussion about menopause and neither should you vajenda.substack.com/p/menopause-...
Menopause, Misinformation, and the Oprah Effect
Why Oprah Winfrey shouldn't be your menopause guide
vajenda.substack.com
March 31, 2025 at 6:26 PM
I don’t trust Oprah to have an accurate discussion about menopause and neither should you vajenda.substack.com/p/menopause-...
April 1, 2025 at 4:34 AM
It’s a mood. open.spotify.com/playlist/6fz...
ELLASAID #47
Playlist · ELLASAID · 50 items
open.spotify.com
March 31, 2025 at 12:30 AM
It’s a mood. open.spotify.com/playlist/6fz...
Hi. It’s me.
EllaSaid.
Also known as Pamella Lee.
Sitting on volcanic rock in Meta, Italy, thinking about everything and nothing.
Not on a journey.
Just living.
Feeling.
#ellasaid #unpaused #notajourney #writingfromthemiddle #unpausedseries
EllaSaid.
Also known as Pamella Lee.
Sitting on volcanic rock in Meta, Italy, thinking about everything and nothing.
Not on a journey.
Just living.
Feeling.
#ellasaid #unpaused #notajourney #writingfromthemiddle #unpausedseries
March 29, 2025 at 8:06 PM
Hi. It’s me.
EllaSaid.
Also known as Pamella Lee.
Sitting on volcanic rock in Meta, Italy, thinking about everything and nothing.
Not on a journey.
Just living.
Feeling.
#ellasaid #unpaused #notajourney #writingfromthemiddle #unpausedseries
EllaSaid.
Also known as Pamella Lee.
Sitting on volcanic rock in Meta, Italy, thinking about everything and nothing.
Not on a journey.
Just living.
Feeling.
#ellasaid #unpaused #notajourney #writingfromthemiddle #unpausedseries