伊莲_ElaineWu
@elainewuq.bsky.social
Video editor/enjoys watching art【25+】
I'm quite confused right now.
Like who can tell me what's the definition of bully and abuse.
Are most of the people doing the same thing?
Like who can tell me what's the definition of bully and abuse.
Are most of the people doing the same thing?
![Victims of verbal abuse may display abusive behaviors towards other individuals. Verbal abuse and verbal aggression can take form in many ways. When individuals understand how verbal abuse may be presented, they can better analyze and act accordingly in certain situations. Verbal aggression can be defined as a characteristic or trait that drives a person to attack the self-values and concepts of others in addition to, or instead of, their own values and concepts.
Bullying – "The use of physical, psychological and verbal aggression to intimidate others to submit to the will of another and/or cause emotional upset".[9] Bullying is typically one-sided and unprovoked by the victim and can be present in any environment.
Gaslighting – The abuser makes the victim question not just their own self, but also their own sanity. One way abusers tend to use gaslighting is by questioning the victim in a manner that gets the victim to question their own perceptions of things. The effects of gaslighting include, individuals seeing themselves as outsiders, having low self-esteem, and feeling like they have no support in decision making.[10][11]
Accusations/Denial of wrongdoing: When an individual falsely accuses another individual of performing a certain action; When an individual denies his/her actions performed against another individual that could have or did cause the victim harm to self-preserve and protect the abuser. (Gaslighting also fits into this type of abuse).
Minimization – Refers to when the abuser is attempting to down-scale the severity of the situation and making it seem insignificant to the victim or audience
Threatening – When an aggressor uses words or actions against a victim that indicates if the victim does not comply with certain situations and/or actions, harm will be inflicted upon them.
Name calling – The use of offensive language/names to gain something from the situation (ex: win an argument) or to probe a negative reaction out of another individual or si…](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:6am73jkbqyvhj7erw4oz5r36/bafkreihsjk3qugla7tj4jgz6jem2m6scc5gvto3wmx27k543u3wyuanmsi@jpeg)
November 4, 2025 at 8:44 AM
I'm quite confused right now.
Like who can tell me what's the definition of bully and abuse.
Are most of the people doing the same thing?
Like who can tell me what's the definition of bully and abuse.
Are most of the people doing the same thing?
I know the best way to stab my emotional heart and let me keep crying over and over again.
October 27, 2025 at 5:35 AM
I know the best way to stab my emotional heart and let me keep crying over and over again.
😞My brain works so well that even my emotions are afraid of it sometimes.
I guess that's just how autism deal with social problems.
I guess that's just how autism deal with social problems.
October 20, 2025 at 2:45 AM
😞My brain works so well that even my emotions are afraid of it sometimes.
I guess that's just how autism deal with social problems.
I guess that's just how autism deal with social problems.
The reason why I immerse myself in the relationships in literary and artistic works is simply because the risk of "trusting others" is too big now.. I can't do it rationally and emotionally.😥
October 18, 2025 at 4:14 AM
The reason why I immerse myself in the relationships in literary and artistic works is simply because the risk of "trusting others" is too big now.. I can't do it rationally and emotionally.😥
Funny thing to say is that my mom have a similar situation with the blue man [jp side] and she decided to hand in the reservation for her part-time job for our household like next week.
June 5, 2025 at 3:37 PM
Funny thing to say is that my mom have a similar situation with the blue man [jp side] and she decided to hand in the reservation for her part-time job for our household like next week.
😅my data from dm【all the ikenya I shared with shiira,small talks with my friend】is gone and now it's down again, plz oshi change platform
May 24, 2025 at 1:12 PM
😅my data from dm【all the ikenya I shared with shiira,small talks with my friend】is gone and now it's down again, plz oshi change platform
在看九龙大众浪漫……现在好像很能共情表达的内容了
May 18, 2025 at 7:51 AM
在看九龙大众浪漫……现在好像很能共情表达的内容了
刚才帮一个来上海玩的日本大学生弟弟指了一下路，领他去乘市域线赶飞机。
自己的n3日本语竟然派上用场了有点开心
自己的n3日本语竟然派上用场了有点开心
March 11, 2025 at 11:31 AM
刚才帮一个来上海玩的日本大学生弟弟指了一下路，领他去乘市域线赶飞机。
自己的n3日本语竟然派上用场了有点开心
自己的n3日本语竟然派上用场了有点开心
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March 3, 2025 at 10:44 AM
New year goal for 2025
1. pay more attention to spending time with my grandma[good thing to keep after last year]
2. about the project I want to make for her, try to spend it more wisely, not self-satisfied [paying for what her needs sounds better]
3. slowly recover my mental health, finish [...]
1. pay more attention to spending time with my grandma[good thing to keep after last year]
2. about the project I want to make for her, try to spend it more wisely, not self-satisfied [paying for what her needs sounds better]
3. slowly recover my mental health, finish [...]
January 27, 2025 at 3:12 PM
New year goal for 2025
1. pay more attention to spending time with my grandma[good thing to keep after last year]
2. about the project I want to make for her, try to spend it more wisely, not self-satisfied [paying for what her needs sounds better]
3. slowly recover my mental health, finish [...]
1. pay more attention to spending time with my grandma[good thing to keep after last year]
2. about the project I want to make for her, try to spend it more wisely, not self-satisfied [paying for what her needs sounds better]
3. slowly recover my mental health, finish [...]
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I was in charge of the illustrations for Ver🐯,Maria❤️🩹,Enna🕊️,Finana🐠,Millie🪄 and Sonny🔗 for the "NIJISANJI EN x Doko Koko Collab Cafe"in Malaysia.Thank you so much for this opportunity!
很榮幸受邀繪製在馬來西亞舉辦的「NIJISANJI EN x Doko Koko Collab Cafe」視覺圖與Q版插圖！
#NIJISANJI_EN #DokoKoko #DKKK
很榮幸受邀繪製在馬來西亞舉辦的「NIJISANJI EN x Doko Koko Collab Cafe」視覺圖與Q版插圖！
#NIJISANJI_EN #DokoKoko #DKKK
January 2, 2025 at 11:12 AM
I was in charge of the illustrations for Ver🐯,Maria❤️🩹,Enna🕊️,Finana🐠,Millie🪄 and Sonny🔗 for the "NIJISANJI EN x Doko Koko Collab Cafe"in Malaysia.Thank you so much for this opportunity!
很榮幸受邀繪製在馬來西亞舉辦的「NIJISANJI EN x Doko Koko Collab Cafe」視覺圖與Q版插圖！
#NIJISANJI_EN #DokoKoko #DKKK
很榮幸受邀繪製在馬來西亞舉辦的「NIJISANJI EN x Doko Koko Collab Cafe」視覺圖與Q版插圖！
#NIJISANJI_EN #DokoKoko #DKKK
I will do my 2025 new year goal on my tradition"New year", aka 春节，but update to all, first check I lived! 2 yes I talked to her more and spend time with her more, find two illnesses on her body in a very early stage and cure them. 3 the project is having progress! I've done the first layout.[...]
Update: I've been doing the 2nd one and I feel so glad she actually smiles more comparing to the first 2 years after my graduation of university.
It is worthy.
It is worthy.
December 31, 2024 at 4:01 PM
I will do my 2025 new year goal on my tradition"New year", aka 春节，but update to all, first check I lived! 2 yes I talked to her more and spend time with her more, find two illnesses on her body in a very early stage and cure them. 3 the project is having progress! I've done the first layout.[...]
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「請把你們表演性的憤怒和厭惡轉變為幫助現實生活中的人們」
November 27, 2024 at 7:32 AM
「請把你們表演性的憤怒和厭惡轉變為幫助現實生活中的人們」
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November 15, 2024 at 4:43 AM
The demon's tarot card makes me feel like his g is coming, maybe it will take a long time, but still quite sad...
And Mr.Novelist's g as well
The shipping now feels like breaking apart.
Or all of this is just my PMS...
And Mr.Novelist's g as well
The shipping now feels like breaking apart.
Or all of this is just my PMS...
November 1, 2024 at 11:04 AM
The demon's tarot card makes me feel like his g is coming, maybe it will take a long time, but still quite sad...
And Mr.Novelist's g as well
The shipping now feels like breaking apart.
Or all of this is just my PMS...
And Mr.Novelist's g as well
The shipping now feels like breaking apart.
Or all of this is just my PMS...
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this is her with cinnaiku <3
October 17, 2024 at 10:37 PM
this is her with cinnaiku <3
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何度でも言うが、bskyで画像を投稿する際は 絶 対 に 内容を検討して。
児童ポルノに厳しいからショタロリコンには向かないし、きわどい画像を警告なしで投稿したら永久BANされるから本当に気をつけて。
ヌード判定は海外式だからバニーガールとかスク水の画像は絶対にヌード警告を付けて。
参考にしてる基準解説の画像を貼っておく。不安なら警告は絶対に付けて。警告をつけていればBANは免れるからくれぐれも忘れないで。
児童ポルノに厳しいからショタロリコンには向かないし、きわどい画像を警告なしで投稿したら永久BANされるから本当に気をつけて。
ヌード判定は海外式だからバニーガールとかスク水の画像は絶対にヌード警告を付けて。
参考にしてる基準解説の画像を貼っておく。不安なら警告は絶対に付けて。警告をつけていればBANは免れるからくれぐれも忘れないで。
March 28, 2024 at 3:18 PM
何度でも言うが、bskyで画像を投稿する際は 絶 対 に 内容を検討して。
児童ポルノに厳しいからショタロリコンには向かないし、きわどい画像を警告なしで投稿したら永久BANされるから本当に気をつけて。
ヌード判定は海外式だからバニーガールとかスク水の画像は絶対にヌード警告を付けて。
参考にしてる基準解説の画像を貼っておく。不安なら警告は絶対に付けて。警告をつけていればBANは免れるからくれぐれも忘れないで。
児童ポルノに厳しいからショタロリコンには向かないし、きわどい画像を警告なしで投稿したら永久BANされるから本当に気をつけて。
ヌード判定は海外式だからバニーガールとかスク水の画像は絶対にヌード警告を付けて。
参考にしてる基準解説の画像を貼っておく。不安なら警告は絶対に付けて。警告をつけていればBANは免れるからくれぐれも忘れないで。
So new year goal for me:
1. try hard to live through this year
2. pay much attention to spending time with my grandma
3. trying to finish that one project I want to do before she pass away
3. draw 1 pic a day, trying to “copy” one still count
4.slowly trying to learn more Japanese and English words
1. try hard to live through this year
2. pay much attention to spending time with my grandma
3. trying to finish that one project I want to do before she pass away
3. draw 1 pic a day, trying to “copy” one still count
4.slowly trying to learn more Japanese and English words
February 15, 2024 at 2:10 PM
So new year goal for me:
1. try hard to live through this year
2. pay much attention to spending time with my grandma
3. trying to finish that one project I want to do before she pass away
3. draw 1 pic a day, trying to “copy” one still count
4.slowly trying to learn more Japanese and English words
1. try hard to live through this year
2. pay much attention to spending time with my grandma
3. trying to finish that one project I want to do before she pass away
3. draw 1 pic a day, trying to “copy” one still count
4.slowly trying to learn more Japanese and English words
Since I‘m a video editor in real life, I won't post much art here, I may just post some daily life feelings and some behind the scenes here.
February 8, 2024 at 1:29 PM
Since I‘m a video editor in real life, I won't post much art here, I may just post some daily life feelings and some behind the scenes here.
Need to update my ID in about 3 months, maybe losing some weight will be nice.
January 20, 2024 at 9:06 AM
Need to update my ID in about 3 months, maybe losing some weight will be nice.
First post on blue sky yeppie!
December 30, 2023 at 7:42 AM
First post on blue sky yeppie!