it def gives self hate. I also think people incorrectly ascribe bottoming to femininity and many gay men are desperate for approval and acceptance from patriarchal cishet people, so much so that they’d throw the very people they have sex with under the bus for a crumb of “respect” from the others.

I need a slice and a nice cup of 💨 infused coffee

Oh Food Lion gonna be out of funfetti icing 🧁

Same! I just take my lactaid and enjoy

Both are amazing, but I’m partial to that purple 💜

Obviously.