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silv // 21 // he/him

Vent Nation 2018 - 2024

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agree
May 18, 2025 at 7:39 PM
like maybe i forget the little things and i might not be the most put together but at least im doing what i absolutely need to do to get by and im not burning out as much and most importantly im IMPROVING and i have some motivation to do better i can see the future and it is bright
May 8, 2025 at 8:56 PM
idk why i’m talking abt this but yeah the top surgery process makes you wait unnecessarily long for no reason (i know there are technically reasons but i am still angry about it) tho at the very least the insurance approval should be a lot faster and the bmi limit should be higher if not removed
April 30, 2025 at 4:22 AM
which could be 6 months to a year at least last time i tried to get top surgery last year i doubt it changed
April 30, 2025 at 4:22 AM
only after i meet the bmi requirements and my dr verifies it and refers me to the clinic i then have to wait for a consultation and then you can wait for up to a year for insurance to verify you actually need top surgery and medicaid takes forever to approve you. THEN you can schedule a surgery date
April 30, 2025 at 4:22 AM
at this point i swear therapy has taught me everything that it possibly can and i don’t actually need it anymore because everything therapists tell me to do ive already considered and tried like 10 times before reaching out
April 21, 2025 at 10:56 PM
i WANT help and support so so bad. but everyone gives me the same exact half ass answer and expects it to work when in reality i could’ve come up with that shit myself why am i paying you
April 21, 2025 at 10:56 PM
it feels like she’s trying to make it my fault that her advice isn’t helping me instead of uh idk the fact i have the disorder that makes it near impossible to use planners
April 21, 2025 at 10:56 PM
she kept insisting i try to use a planner or a to do list to help me structure a daily routine and i tried to tell her that i’ve tried to do lists countless times and they never help me and she just doubled down and blamed my inconsistent wake times?
April 21, 2025 at 10:56 PM
either she doesn’t believe i have adhd or she has no fucking clue how to help adhd people and if it’s the latter i feel so so so bad for her husband who supposedly has adhd
April 21, 2025 at 10:48 PM
redraw of this
April 21, 2025 at 6:14 AM
my friends were gonna put the bumpers up for me but it was the employees first day and she didn’t know how 😔 kinda glad they couldn’t do it tho i was having fun chucking balls into the gutter as hard as possible
April 18, 2025 at 12:38 PM