i get it like it seems like people don’t give much thought to her as a character in fics they just have her there to be The Girl friend

Is it gay to think of your best bro when you think you're about to lose but thinking of him gives you the motivation to push beyond your limits and keep fighting, makes you want to live?

and when they erase her personality for that and make her Voice of Reason Responsible One for her friends 💀 like ohhh so you’re making the only woman in the friend group The Mother (literally and figuratively) okayyy

some of her friends will have kids and she’ll be the kids’ favorite aunty cause she doesn’t know what to do with them so she just lets them do irresponsible fun stuff

it’s lowkey misogynistic idk let my girl be terrible with kids and not have one bit of maternal instinct in her

kiri turns to him with a soft smile on his face and says “you seriously need to work on your proposal skills, dude”