\nSo take your time and take the lead in doing what is necessary to promote healing.

When you do that your body and mind will do the rest. \n\nBut if you expect everything to be better too soon, or you expect healing to mean the total elimination of any scars, then you’ll always feel like there is a problem to be fixed.

The reason this is good news is that you are not at the mercy of what happened to you or the people you employ to help you through it. You are very much in the driving seat. You can work with them to create the right conditions for natural healing to take place.

Which of these signs do you pick up on the most? And how do you respond? Chat with me in the comments. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. We often don’t know how to respond until we’ve had time to think it through.

• Engaging in gossip about someone
• Agreeing to something while making it clear that it is hassle for them

• Subtle but persistent comments in an otherwise friendly interaction that leave you doubting how they really feel about you.