Like my body probably can’t even handle it while I’m out of shape but one of the things I missed out on most as a child bc I was a “girl” was all the rough physical contact. I have always been tall (medium) and a lot of my life I was also fairly strong for my age so I’d mistakenly hurt ppl

That’s so real lol. I’m glad you’ve found something that works for you!

I prefer the look of leather, and feel self conscious getting one from like, a pet store, though hopefully I’ll eventually get over that

Right now I’ve got a martingale that I love, I’ll eventually get more but the ones I like tend to be expensive