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djlonelygirl.bsky.social
@djlonelygirl.bsky.social
Quintessential vrchat club Wine Mom
Grime DJ / Open format music producer
A&R at @ultimavr.bsky.social
she/her

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nah yeah my bad im high
November 22, 2025 at 10:53 PM
like im just saying if u put urself out there to like hundreds of people prepare to be put out there to like hundreds of people and don't call like thousands of people sociopaths because you're mad no one wants to perform with like som dude who ranted about mexicans for 10 minutes like someone i kno
November 22, 2025 at 10:41 PM
i just think its a stretch to say the community flatly does or doesnt care about something, i think the social media side of thing amplifies how you view stuff and things take time n all that its just too granular of a thing
November 22, 2025 at 10:39 PM
but also i am saying like all of this is human nature, its the same shit with ike 80% of rave groups out here like this isn't something unique to vrc by any means and people do indeed figure it out, ive seen it
November 22, 2025 at 10:38 PM
like a pattern needs to be established

is that not the normal logic?
November 22, 2025 at 10:37 PM
i mean i literally saw him last week im 99% sure he's cleared by all means things change im just saying if u know u dont give a shit if people don't get on a soapbox about how you totally do and you're not just mad you got yourself banned from a bunch of places for repeatedly bein a weirdo
November 22, 2025 at 10:36 PM
also if u need community resources to help decipher ur path on things its always okay to get them lol

i validate information by cross referencing it and going on an individual level to make up my own mind

but again if something i listed making up my mind is very quick
November 22, 2025 at 10:17 PM
the last sentence was worded poorly i think u get it tho
November 22, 2025 at 10:13 PM
do you gotta take in information and understand where you went wrong, if you do? yes. this is life. im just saying if you don't care, don't pretend too, its worse than faking it
November 22, 2025 at 10:11 PM
lgbtiq+ phobes count as right winger 2 me
November 22, 2025 at 10:10 PM
i question what you consider grounds for being problematic because it is the easiest thing in the world for me

1. Right wingers
2. Predators
3. Racists
4. thats the entire list
November 22, 2025 at 10:09 PM
like idk man oh no ppl mad at u

you are not losing quarterly profit because of your booking choices
November 22, 2025 at 10:00 PM
fr context bassnectar is a pedophile
November 22, 2025 at 9:58 PM
like if you do, don't be fucking surprised and write 10 posts about how you have it so hard you have issues booking people like 1 + 1 = 2 simple math don't act surprised
November 22, 2025 at 9:58 PM
i mean even if you do right like im coming from the perspective of if you do perform with shit ppl right

why do we pretend its a thing thats somehow weird like it doesn't happen pretending this is a "vrc problem" is a joke this is human nature and people do mental gymnastics to deal with it
November 22, 2025 at 9:57 PM
literally when skream brought out 12th planet the entire lineup had to release statements saying they weren't associated with him and were not informed

this is reality bro idk what to tell you this is how society works
November 22, 2025 at 9:56 PM