I really love my large Caiman for stretching practice. The cross section shape being a bit more ovular, with one side flat and the other pointed allows for a lot of versatility in sensations when rotating how I insert the toy along the long axis.

I love playing the game of "how many pronouns can I use in one sentence to describe the same person?"

Yo I think they might be trying to build a prison, for you and me

I think the easiest approach is going at it with curiosity and humility. Unlike the stereotyped white person yogi, youre already well aware you arent an authority on this topic. Holding that true and learning what you can and speaking from your own experience is the best approach in my experience.