I hope it can help, but when i figured out I was trans, starting to call it my girlcock, girldick, etc,did start to help. The other thing was working with my therapist on realizing the normality of it.

Im rooting for you Vee. It takes time. Be kind to yourself. 🫂

AND REMEMBER

Identities can change, shift and be fluid!

Thanks for listening!

For me this manifested early as my attraction to "anime girls"
And it has been a constant for me.

I really never liked feeling any type of attraction until i started to transition. Now, especially with the lower sex drive, i feel a lot better about my identities.

This includes trans fems, nonbinary, vagina havers, etc. If i did not name something im sure i will be told. XD
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Fictosexual:

Im sure this one will get some backlash, but honestly? Bite me.
This one means that i am typically only sexually attracted to fictional characters.

They are usually willing to acquiesce.
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Asexual/Ace: to me this means im not that interested in sexual things. It is an UMBRELLA TERM it fits multiple things under the definition
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Lesbian:
Typically, when I do feel sexual attraction, attracted to female, fem, female presenting, phlox