maybe im just talking out of my ass here, but i for one have never really been fond of being in “the crowds” when it comes to this fandom, it tends to become very suffocating.

tbh, this is relatable as hell but overtime after having been in the fandom for probably not even as long as you, I’ve come to realize that we don’t need a place, we have to make a place for ourselves. I spent a long time being jealous at people who end to cons tbh.

real shit