It is sobering to remember that violence behind closed doors is a reality and, some argue, is a global epidemic. It's also not an "out there" issue on the streets, but for many, home is the most dangerous place on Earth, even within the body of Christ. #DVAM

God’s Plea to His Body:

Dear ones who weep in Central Texas, you are suffering an unbearable grief. I grieve with you, as does our Lord.

“I was hungry, and you gave Me nothing. I was a stranger, and you did not invite Me in. I was naked, and you did not clothe Me.” Jesus said, Whatever we have done to the least, we have also done to Him.

Today, we remember and honor the service members who made the ultimate sacrifice. #MemorialDay

Hope . . .

Restoration should be accompanied by watchfulness. Sin is contagious. It is easy to catch the disease we are working with or react to one sin with another, such as pride or a critical spirit.

Trained and licensed counselors with experience in this area are needed so as not to create further damage. Their role is critical. This link can direct you to helpful resources: www.dianelangberg.com/resources/

Narcissism at its core is the preservation of the self as both good and grand. Success, power over others, adoration, and approval are a true narcissist’s food, drink, and oxygen, exploiting anything or anyone in the service of their ends. For your consideration: www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BU3...

The wounds of trauma are not visible; their effects are. When sufferers are slow to speak, slow to listen, or slow to change, our responses are to also be like our Incarnate Savior’s toward us.

To silence is to profane God’s house.

Grateful to have this conversation with @drmoore.bsky.social on the significance and impact of church hurt and what to do when a church hurts people or when you've been hurt by the church. www.youtube.com/watch?v=c36D...

My colleagues and I look forward to seeing many of you in just three weeks. We believe that together, the church can be a genuine place of safety, hope, and restoration for all who seek it. We are almost at capacity, so if you plan to attend, please register now.

To all, from me to you: May you know our God is with you.

O Emmanuel, by Malcolm Guite

www.youtube.com/watch?v=h97J...

Pastors and church leaders, it is absolutely crucial that the church not be silent and that the church be a place of refuge for hope and healing for those who have suffered from abuse. Anything less is a failure to demonstrate His character in this world. Please join us!

Shared here in these posts are a few of the thoughts I have learned and share in my new book, “When the Church Harms God’s People.”

Book link in profile.