Another problem is that though alot of us know words mean things...we still act like they don't. This entire post can be misread and there'd be the dumbest debate instead of an actual conversation. 😭 proving my self bias that living like a hermit is more relaxing than any of this shit to begin with.

atp Im missing the college form debates... atp im missing my dads debates, that's how you know we're starved.... 😭

Like I truly dislike my ex-best friend for more reasons than one, but I'll always give her credit for telling me how she felt. Same with my current one😭 like I love discussions.

I do understand how, in this day and age, where any words said outside of the fence are attached to projection and moral failings, how hard it can be to tell someone the basic: I don't know or care. But I promise (for me at least) it's not savoring my feelings by hiding them.

When it comes to serious topics like racism, social logic, and money, people have enough sense to engage or tell someone they cannot engage. I don't care how you say it, just say it.

It only gets me irritated when it's a serious topic, especially one that doesn't call for fence-sitting or yes-manning. Sure, when it's about some new Animal Crossing game, say whatever baseless stance you like...but,

It's like when it comes to communication there's a force that makes people say anything. So when you question, said anything, people get upset when the point of the conversation was to speak on the topic to begin with.

like I was on your side...