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Destai the Chainmaille Outcast
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AuDHD, Queer, Nonbinary, Disabled, Norwegian UK dweller and creative powerhouse. I make chainmaille (and other stuff)! Find my stuff at destai.com
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*INSTITUTIONALIZATION IS WORSE THEN JAIL*

Disabled, mentally ill, and homeless people thrown into institutions don’t get phone calls, lawyers, or trails. THEY ARE DISAPPEARED with no time limits or advocate for as long as the state pleases.

You know it’s bad when prisoners have more protections.
July 24, 2025 at 10:47 PM
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For all our trans siblings harmed by today’s judgment if you’re struggling or feeling low,

please reach out:
• Galop: 0800 999 5428
• Mindline Trans+: 0300 330 5468
• Mermaids: 0808 801 0400
• Switchboard: 0800 0119 100

You are loved. Support is here.
April 16, 2025 at 10:07 AM
Joy makes the experience just about tolerable. I'm glad you're experiencing joy even though the other things are still there 💜
December 17, 2024 at 1:53 PM
Sounds like a noun rather than an adjective. Like "I'm feeling a lot of confelicity today"
December 12, 2024 at 11:00 AM
Thank you so much! 💜
December 9, 2024 at 8:24 PM
Solidarity! I recognise all of this. Can I give you a virtual hug?
November 27, 2024 at 10:54 AM
I've been there and am still there to some extent. I empathise so much. And I'm glad you're not trying to be dead! That's the biggest fight a lot of the time. :-/
November 27, 2024 at 10:51 AM
It's literally survival mode. I recognise this so much. It makes the creative part of your brain pretty much inaccessible and focuses all the energy into fight/flight (with a side of freeze/fawn if you have those "installed"). The rage and anger is the fight response.
November 27, 2024 at 10:50 AM
A few days later there was a story in the local paper about UFO sightings in the area... Always stayed with me.
November 25, 2024 at 12:32 PM
Yes! As a kid (12-13) in Norway I woke up in the middle of the night and saw the entire living room (with panoramic windows) lit up in this bright, radioactive-esque green light. I got very scared and hid under my duvet lol
November 25, 2024 at 12:32 PM
Fucking hell that sucks! I've experienced similar before (e.g. my therapist was off sick for our appointment and no one thought to contact me) and it really does make you feel invisible.

I see you! You are real! And you are awesome to boot! 💜
November 23, 2024 at 12:19 PM
Haha I kinda like the crab (despite thinking they're the spiders of the sea irl!) - tough shell, soft insides, I definitely have some pincers too. Can go unnoticed if I want to, or really make my presence known. I dunno, it works for me 😜
November 23, 2024 at 12:12 PM