DebonairWhale
debonairwhale.bsky.social
DebonairWhale
@debonairwhale.bsky.social
Lead with empathy. We're just trying to make ends meet on this big beautiful earth
Now I feel like adulthood is truly just beginning. A job I can vibe in, reconnected with old friends and made new. Here's to my 30s being even better. Thank you to everyone that has made this life possible even in the wake of unfortunate downturns societally
October 23, 2025 at 2:07 AM
It was all a bit up in the air until a few years ago and post 2020 I had actual goals and stability both socially and financially. I've finally stopped moving every other year, I have a more consistent friend group that is more proactive in communication. I dropped some other dead weight friends.
October 23, 2025 at 2:07 AM
At 22-23 I met my now fiancee @classiestcat.bsky.social and that was a big turn in my life to now. I made the hard left turn into leftist politics, I started to understand and embrace my blackness and how i can and do exist in spaces.
October 23, 2025 at 2:07 AM
If you had told me 20-23 yo self that those guys I was living with would be AWOL as soon as college ended I never would have suspected it but oh well.
October 23, 2025 at 2:07 AM
The transition from college to adulthood. My college friends were and probably are great but they exist in a long line of what I call friends by proximity. I harbor no I'll will towards them going a different path
October 23, 2025 at 2:07 AM