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Debb Ponders Life
@debbster.bsky.social
IFB cult & DV abuse survivor who left it all to survive and heal. Now I battle the patriarchy from a place of financial, emotional & spiritual independence. All while calling out the system that robs women of their rights and power.
Yeah yeah, ok, mean girl. Peace out!
May 11, 2025 at 9:53 PM
wtf does that mean?
May 11, 2025 at 9:45 PM
At what point do you concede that what you’re saying is true and so is what I am saying. I am NOT blaming Dems for what maga is doing. I’m blaming them for not doing EVERYTHING in their power since tea party days to stop them from THIS!!!
May 11, 2025 at 9:36 PM
Lots of accusations without any proof.
May 11, 2025 at 9:33 PM
That’s fine you’re welcome to disagree, just be careful. You’re on shaky ground in your choice to not challenge your bias of Dem leadership, especially the institutional Dems. This is coming from someone who survived high control religion (aka cult).
May 11, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I am not including the left leaning more action oriented Dems in the ID category. AOC, Bernie, Crockett, and many others are working to obstruct and have been obstructing their entire tenure in Congress. Their work is admirable. The ID needs to take a lesson from them and get into good trouble.
May 11, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Institutional Dems (ID) are resting on decorum. They (ID) failed us in many ways. Not ensuring we had a Supreme Court justice and giving McConnell his way. Locking out Bernie. Not contesting the result of ‘24. Kamala won btw! Not pushing harder on 🤡 DOJ case.
May 11, 2025 at 7:16 PM
This isn’t the only social app I’m on.

Maga aren’t on here to demand they do something.

I call out maga all the time on TikTok, on Nextdoor and in person - I live in a ruby red state. FB was my biggest anti maga platform but I dropped meta apps once Zuck stood behind the 🤡 on Inauguration Day.
May 11, 2025 at 7:04 PM
I’m not going to take part in whataboutism of the right. Which is what you’re asking me to do. We’re not in the “it’s ok we have another election” stage anymore. GOP isn’t following the law! If the courts & Dem lawmakers don’t hold them to account now we don’t get another chance.
May 11, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Right now it looks helluva lot like projection. I don’t fuck with “you’re doing it now but I’m not going to tell you how”. BTDT.
May 11, 2025 at 6:47 PM
That’s literally what I have said. Not sure if it was to you or not. Find out what is keeping GOP from doing right and lean into it. If they’re being bribed then offer a way out if they do the right thing. LEO does this all the time in criminal cases so it’s not above the law.
May 11, 2025 at 6:36 PM
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May 11, 2025 at 10:14 AM
Give me the exact actions that are inherent racism, micro or causal racism or drop it. I haven’t called you a name or “skeeted” anything rude. I’m holding you accountable to the accusations you’re making. Either put up or shut up.
May 11, 2025 at 6:18 PM
I’m sure there are opportunities that would allow a workaround to get beyond these 2 people. Otherwise 2 people have ultimate power and authority. Why bother having a Constitution, Congress or a SCOTUS? I refuse to believe we’re fucked until we’ve done (not tried) everything possible.
May 11, 2025 at 6:16 PM
Doing what? Again you’re here with accusations but no proof
May 11, 2025 at 6:10 PM
But it really is, while you couched it in “I’m just trying to help you” words, you’re essentially accusing me of being a closeted bigot who upholds patriarchy while refusing to give evidence. I’m not anxious or agitated, I’m direct and I don’t coddle.
May 11, 2025 at 5:08 PM
No. It’s not.

That’s like saying because the DUI hire is in charge of the military there aren’t military who take their oath to the Constitution seriously.
May 11, 2025 at 4:53 PM
And I am not one of those people. Period.

I never sat out a vote and even while in a high control religion, voted for women’s rights (pro-choice) and stood strong for equality. You have me labeled completely wrong.
May 11, 2025 at 4:51 PM
And for the record I believe the action should be coming from white people first and foremost. POC have carried the burden and had to fight for far too long. The burden should never have been on them.
May 11, 2025 at 4:48 PM
I get it. But there have to be people in Congress who will start the process with a referral. Thinking that the DOJ is his and not even trying because of that is as good as giving up. And all is lost.
May 11, 2025 at 4:44 PM
I stood against my family and friends. I am not a bigot. I would be demanding the same action of a white man. We are in desperate times and sitting back hoping for a blue wave in 2026 or 2028 is the same old thing that got us here. We can have the wave but they’ll cheat to steal it away.
May 11, 2025 at 4:36 PM