DearFormer-Self
@dearformerself.bsky.social
22 Y/O. Neurodivergent Video Essayist, Advocating for people who don't fit society's "norm" (He/Him + She/Her) ⏬️
You are not alone! You are loved, You are Valuable! Your differences make you beautiful!💙
You are not alone! You are loved, You are Valuable! Your differences make you beautiful!💙
I've been given a State-Assigned Friend on the @outlastmc.bsky.social SMP.
I must protect my friend with my life, or else risk being alone once again.
I don't want to be alone anymore..😔🥲
(STREAM FRIDAY @ 9:30PM EST)
I must protect my friend with my life, or else risk being alone once again.
I don't want to be alone anymore..😔🥲
(STREAM FRIDAY @ 9:30PM EST)
March 20, 2025 at 2:46 AM
I've been given a State-Assigned Friend on the @outlastmc.bsky.social SMP.
I must protect my friend with my life, or else risk being alone once again.
I don't want to be alone anymore..😔🥲
(STREAM FRIDAY @ 9:30PM EST)
I must protect my friend with my life, or else risk being alone once again.
I don't want to be alone anymore..😔🥲
(STREAM FRIDAY @ 9:30PM EST)
Jubilee normalizing hate speech and radicalizing people against marginalized groups towards alt-right extremism under the guise of "free speech" or "bringing people together" is absolutely disgusting.
It's extremely harmful and predatory.
People's EXISTENCE is NOT a debate topic.
It's extremely harmful and predatory.
People's EXISTENCE is NOT a debate topic.
February 18, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Jubilee normalizing hate speech and radicalizing people against marginalized groups towards alt-right extremism under the guise of "free speech" or "bringing people together" is absolutely disgusting.
It's extremely harmful and predatory.
People's EXISTENCE is NOT a debate topic.
It's extremely harmful and predatory.
People's EXISTENCE is NOT a debate topic.
I can't wait to return to streaming on Saturday @ 4:30 am EST!
February 7, 2025 at 7:07 PM
I can't wait to return to streaming on Saturday @ 4:30 am EST!
Welcome to America's continuous push towards fascism.
My Youtube is where all the shorts go for now ig, follow there if you're interested in some short and long form commentary and discussion about lgbtq+ and mental health topics
My Youtube is where all the shorts go for now ig, follow there if you're interested in some short and long form commentary and discussion about lgbtq+ and mental health topics
January 19, 2025 at 6:55 AM
Welcome to America's continuous push towards fascism.
My Youtube is where all the shorts go for now ig, follow there if you're interested in some short and long form commentary and discussion about lgbtq+ and mental health topics
My Youtube is where all the shorts go for now ig, follow there if you're interested in some short and long form commentary and discussion about lgbtq+ and mental health topics
It's only here to further insult a group of people.
This is ableism at its finest. And normalizing this language--especially as someone who has such a large platform--has very negative real-world consequences. It's disgusting. Dream should be ashamed of himself.
This is ableism at its finest. And normalizing this language--especially as someone who has such a large platform--has very negative real-world consequences. It's disgusting. Dream should be ashamed of himself.
January 13, 2025 at 3:05 AM
It's only here to further insult a group of people.
This is ableism at its finest. And normalizing this language--especially as someone who has such a large platform--has very negative real-world consequences. It's disgusting. Dream should be ashamed of himself.
This is ableism at its finest. And normalizing this language--especially as someone who has such a large platform--has very negative real-world consequences. It's disgusting. Dream should be ashamed of himself.
You don't get to go around calling people the r-slur with a negative connotation attached to it and say "Oh I'm reclaiming it." Because you aren't reclaiming ANYTHING.
January 13, 2025 at 3:05 AM
You don't get to go around calling people the r-slur with a negative connotation attached to it and say "Oh I'm reclaiming it." Because you aren't reclaiming ANYTHING.
Disabled people can still be ableist!!
Let's talk about Dream's use of the R-Slur here.
Lots of people online have tried justifying this usage of the term, citing that Dream's has been diagnosed with Autism.
Let's talk about Dream's use of the R-Slur here.
Lots of people online have tried justifying this usage of the term, citing that Dream's has been diagnosed with Autism.
January 13, 2025 at 3:05 AM
Disabled people can still be ableist!!
Let's talk about Dream's use of the R-Slur here.
Lots of people online have tried justifying this usage of the term, citing that Dream's has been diagnosed with Autism.
Let's talk about Dream's use of the R-Slur here.
Lots of people online have tried justifying this usage of the term, citing that Dream's has been diagnosed with Autism.
Rising housing costs are great for people who own homes, and horrible for people who don't already own a home.
All of us weren't old enough to buy a home in 2009. And now, they're too expensive.
Every year that housing prices increase, it becomes more difficult for a non-homer to afford one.
All of us weren't old enough to buy a home in 2009. And now, they're too expensive.
Every year that housing prices increase, it becomes more difficult for a non-homer to afford one.
December 29, 2024 at 3:14 PM
Rising housing costs are great for people who own homes, and horrible for people who don't already own a home.
All of us weren't old enough to buy a home in 2009. And now, they're too expensive.
Every year that housing prices increase, it becomes more difficult for a non-homer to afford one.
All of us weren't old enough to buy a home in 2009. And now, they're too expensive.
Every year that housing prices increase, it becomes more difficult for a non-homer to afford one.
( I already have the first two episodes written!
I just need help actually MAKING the puppets, the sets, etc--as well as finding/paying voice actors!
If you're interested in supporting the project, you can DM me for more information! )
I just need help actually MAKING the puppets, the sets, etc--as well as finding/paying voice actors!
If you're interested in supporting the project, you can DM me for more information! )
December 19, 2024 at 1:55 AM
( I already have the first two episodes written!
I just need help actually MAKING the puppets, the sets, etc--as well as finding/paying voice actors!
If you're interested in supporting the project, you can DM me for more information! )
I just need help actually MAKING the puppets, the sets, etc--as well as finding/paying voice actors!
If you're interested in supporting the project, you can DM me for more information! )
Just keep working at it, keep practicing your social/communication skills, and eventually, you'll find a group of friends who love you and see you for who you are!
December 9, 2024 at 4:04 AM
Just keep working at it, keep practicing your social/communication skills, and eventually, you'll find a group of friends who love you and see you for who you are!
The little kid you see here? Was full of anxiety.
Full of confusion about social interactions, curious about the world, and often wondered where they fit into it all.
I tried to fit in and tried and tried, and--for YEARS--never quite seemed to get it.
Full of confusion about social interactions, curious about the world, and often wondered where they fit into it all.
I tried to fit in and tried and tried, and--for YEARS--never quite seemed to get it.
December 9, 2024 at 4:04 AM
The little kid you see here? Was full of anxiety.
Full of confusion about social interactions, curious about the world, and often wondered where they fit into it all.
I tried to fit in and tried and tried, and--for YEARS--never quite seemed to get it.
Full of confusion about social interactions, curious about the world, and often wondered where they fit into it all.
I tried to fit in and tried and tried, and--for YEARS--never quite seemed to get it.
Through revision to the goals, practice, and guidance/help from a support network (be that friends, mentors, and (hopefully) licensed professionals, you'll get better at it!!💯
December 9, 2024 at 4:04 AM
Through revision to the goals, practice, and guidance/help from a support network (be that friends, mentors, and (hopefully) licensed professionals, you'll get better at it!!💯
I've failed. Many, many times. And so has EVERY OTHER PERSON on the planet.
Set goals, fail those goals, and reassess the goals.
Just look at this photo I took earlier. It's a lot of things, but a "successful selfie" is NOT one of them lmao. And that's okay!
Set goals, fail those goals, and reassess the goals.
Just look at this photo I took earlier. It's a lot of things, but a "successful selfie" is NOT one of them lmao. And that's okay!
December 9, 2024 at 4:04 AM
I've failed. Many, many times. And so has EVERY OTHER PERSON on the planet.
Set goals, fail those goals, and reassess the goals.
Just look at this photo I took earlier. It's a lot of things, but a "successful selfie" is NOT one of them lmao. And that's okay!
Set goals, fail those goals, and reassess the goals.
Just look at this photo I took earlier. It's a lot of things, but a "successful selfie" is NOT one of them lmao. And that's okay!
It's okay to struggle. You'll get better the more you do it. It's okay if it takes a while to practice those skills! And it's okay if you fail.💙
Life is all about failing and getting back up and trying again. The more you fail and get back up, the better you'll be.
Life is all about failing and getting back up and trying again. The more you fail and get back up, the better you'll be.
December 9, 2024 at 4:04 AM
It's okay to struggle. You'll get better the more you do it. It's okay if it takes a while to practice those skills! And it's okay if you fail.💙
Life is all about failing and getting back up and trying again. The more you fail and get back up, the better you'll be.
Life is all about failing and getting back up and trying again. The more you fail and get back up, the better you'll be.
I find it funny that when I was a teenager getting help for my depression/anxiety/neurodivergency, I set a goal to have at least ONE conversation once per week with a random person.
That was very difficult.
(Photo: Me at 15 wearing a plastic cup as a bowtie at a formal event as a joke)
That was very difficult.
(Photo: Me at 15 wearing a plastic cup as a bowtie at a formal event as a joke)
December 9, 2024 at 4:04 AM
I find it funny that when I was a teenager getting help for my depression/anxiety/neurodivergency, I set a goal to have at least ONE conversation once per week with a random person.
That was very difficult.
(Photo: Me at 15 wearing a plastic cup as a bowtie at a formal event as a joke)
That was very difficult.
(Photo: Me at 15 wearing a plastic cup as a bowtie at a formal event as a joke)
Hey guys I bet you can't figure out what my hyperfixations were this year...💀🤣
(Spotify low-key calling me out on my neurodivergent tendencies lmao /lh /pos)
(Spotify low-key calling me out on my neurodivergent tendencies lmao /lh /pos)
December 5, 2024 at 9:54 PM
Hey guys I bet you can't figure out what my hyperfixations were this year...💀🤣
(Spotify low-key calling me out on my neurodivergent tendencies lmao /lh /pos)
(Spotify low-key calling me out on my neurodivergent tendencies lmao /lh /pos)
Can we take a min to point out how amazing this band is? They don't get the recognition they deserve!!
So grateful I got to see them live last year!🙏🥳🎊
@yellowcard.bsky.social
So grateful I got to see them live last year!🙏🥳🎊
@yellowcard.bsky.social
December 5, 2024 at 9:50 PM
Can we take a min to point out how amazing this band is? They don't get the recognition they deserve!!
So grateful I got to see them live last year!🙏🥳🎊
@yellowcard.bsky.social
So grateful I got to see them live last year!🙏🥳🎊
@yellowcard.bsky.social
I'm making puppets for the show I'm developing lol! (I did the sewing the wrong way round. Ignore that. Still learning lmao)
December 2, 2024 at 3:57 AM
I'm making puppets for the show I'm developing lol! (I did the sewing the wrong way round. Ignore that. Still learning lmao)
Went to an exhibit about Salvador Dali.
The guy seemed like kind of a jerk. But his artwork was cool!
The guy seemed like kind of a jerk. But his artwork was cool!
December 1, 2024 at 6:51 PM
Went to an exhibit about Salvador Dali.
The guy seemed like kind of a jerk. But his artwork was cool!
The guy seemed like kind of a jerk. But his artwork was cool!
Oh my god this is actually real 😭😭
November 29, 2024 at 1:50 PM
Oh my god this is actually real 😭😭
Not Spotify recommending THE NOTEBOOK to me😭😭 Do you think they know?👀
Omg should I listen to it? /silly
Omg should I listen to it? /silly
November 17, 2024 at 6:05 AM
Not Spotify recommending THE NOTEBOOK to me😭😭 Do you think they know?👀
Omg should I listen to it? /silly
Omg should I listen to it? /silly
Mental Health Resources:
S-Word Hotlines Numbers for Different Countries:
blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlin…
How To Know WHAT You Feel:
kimegel.com/blog/2022/3/22
Understanding HOW You Feel:
hbr.org/2016/11/3-ways
Images for Feeling Words and "I Feel" Statements are also attached.
S-Word Hotlines Numbers for Different Countries:
blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlin…
How To Know WHAT You Feel:
kimegel.com/blog/2022/3/22
Understanding HOW You Feel:
hbr.org/2016/11/3-ways
Images for Feeling Words and "I Feel" Statements are also attached.
November 17, 2024 at 5:14 AM
Mental Health Resources:
S-Word Hotlines Numbers for Different Countries:
blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlin…
How To Know WHAT You Feel:
kimegel.com/blog/2022/3/22
Understanding HOW You Feel:
hbr.org/2016/11/3-ways
Images for Feeling Words and "I Feel" Statements are also attached.
S-Word Hotlines Numbers for Different Countries:
blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlin…
How To Know WHAT You Feel:
kimegel.com/blog/2022/3/22
Understanding HOW You Feel:
hbr.org/2016/11/3-ways
Images for Feeling Words and "I Feel" Statements are also attached.
Hi, I'm Weston!
TLDR: I'm Ace, Neurodivergent, and Genderfluid. I also experienced a lot of childhood trauma.
TLDR: I'm Ace, Neurodivergent, and Genderfluid. I also experienced a lot of childhood trauma.
November 17, 2024 at 5:14 AM
Hi, I'm Weston!
TLDR: I'm Ace, Neurodivergent, and Genderfluid. I also experienced a lot of childhood trauma.
TLDR: I'm Ace, Neurodivergent, and Genderfluid. I also experienced a lot of childhood trauma.