Dara (she/her)
@deadly-knitshade.bsky.social
Knitter, crocheter, goth, lesbian from the Midwest headed to the southwest 🧶🌵🏳️🌈
Listening to Rent and I realized that I'm literally Maureen except for the whole cheating thing.... shit
April 3, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Listening to Rent and I realized that I'm literally Maureen except for the whole cheating thing.... shit
So happy that my girlfriend made a hook to hang my #Lemonwood Mini Minder so I can knit easier. She's so sweet to me #knitting
January 28, 2025 at 3:40 AM
So happy that my girlfriend made a hook to hang my #Lemonwood Mini Minder so I can knit easier. She's so sweet to me #knitting
Zona, my girlfriend's dog, has been very sweet to me this visit. She's a bit feral as she lives on the streets in Phoenix for who knows how long. Now, she lives the pampered life while still trying to eat trash and fight other dogs #rescued #pamperedpooch #rescuedig
January 24, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Zona, my girlfriend's dog, has been very sweet to me this visit. She's a bit feral as she lives on the streets in Phoenix for who knows how long. Now, she lives the pampered life while still trying to eat trash and fight other dogs #rescued #pamperedpooch #rescuedig
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KNOW YOUR RIGHTS.
With mass deportations starting today across the country, it is vitally important - for both citizens and non-citizens - to know your rights.
You have the right to remain silent. Assert it. You have the right to a lawyer. Ask for one.
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KNOW YOUR RIGHTS.
With mass deportations starting today across the country, it is vitally important - for both citizens and non-citizens - to know your rights.
You have the right to remain silent. Assert it. You have the right to a lawyer. Ask for one.
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January 22, 2025 at 2:19 AM
SHARE WIDELY.
KNOW YOUR RIGHTS.
With mass deportations starting today across the country, it is vitally important - for both citizens and non-citizens - to know your rights.
You have the right to remain silent. Assert it. You have the right to a lawyer. Ask for one.
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KNOW YOUR RIGHTS.
With mass deportations starting today across the country, it is vitally important - for both citizens and non-citizens - to know your rights.
You have the right to remain silent. Assert it. You have the right to a lawyer. Ask for one.
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This is Shadow. He's Catrick Swayze's boyfriend and the best foster uncle ever. He is a fierce protector of Catrick from dogs and has beat up many who dare get too close to his man. He's a lover though, and would rather snuggle. #cats #tuxedocats
January 20, 2025 at 7:09 PM
This is Shadow. He's Catrick Swayze's boyfriend and the best foster uncle ever. He is a fierce protector of Catrick from dogs and has beat up many who dare get too close to his man. He's a lover though, and would rather snuggle. #cats #tuxedocats
This is Catrick Swayze. He was found in a car engine with severe burns on all 4 paws. He's recovered but had to have a medical rear declaw because of damage to the nail bed that was causing recurring infection. He's the best boy #cats #bestboyever
January 20, 2025 at 7:03 PM
This is Catrick Swayze. He was found in a car engine with severe burns on all 4 paws. He's recovered but had to have a medical rear declaw because of damage to the nail bed that was causing recurring infection. He's the best boy #cats #bestboyever
Hi friends from other apps (aka people who have known me irl for a while). I'm primarily using this for yarn/knitting/crochet things along with dealing with coming out later in life as a lesbian. I plan on moving to AZ in May. Rob & I are separating and on great terms. Things are wild right now
January 14, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Hi friends from other apps (aka people who have known me irl for a while). I'm primarily using this for yarn/knitting/crochet things along with dealing with coming out later in life as a lesbian. I plan on moving to AZ in May. Rob & I are separating and on great terms. Things are wild right now
January 14, 2025 at 2:29 AM
Progress on a pair of socks I'm making for a good friend. He's a big Drm Who fan and the dyer made the yarn reminiscent of the TARDIS. #knitting #sockknitting #socks #knit #yarn
January 5, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Progress on a pair of socks I'm making for a good friend. He's a big Drm Who fan and the dyer made the yarn reminiscent of the TARDIS. #knitting #sockknitting #socks #knit #yarn
One of my favorite little crochet projects is this little guy. 🐙🧶 #crochet #amigurumi
January 4, 2025 at 11:54 PM
One of my favorite little crochet projects is this little guy. 🐙🧶 #crochet #amigurumi
I'm dealing with some neck and shoulder pain so here's an older project, a pinwheel baby blanket from roughly 6 years ago. The little one still uses it. 🧶 #knitting
January 3, 2025 at 9:39 PM
I'm dealing with some neck and shoulder pain so here's an older project, a pinwheel baby blanket from roughly 6 years ago. The little one still uses it. 🧶 #knitting
I also made a small army of Quackens for my husband's cousin in early 2024/late 2023. Pattern is from Drewbies and so fun to make! 🧶🦆🐙 #crochet
January 2, 2025 at 3:17 PM
I also made a small army of Quackens for my husband's cousin in early 2024/late 2023. Pattern is from Drewbies and so fun to make! 🧶🦆🐙 #crochet
Are there any support groups out there for lesbians who come out later in life after living as hetero for 20+ years? This is hard to do on your own. I feel a bit lost and like I dont fit anywhere #lgbtqia #comingout #lateinlifecomingout
December 16, 2024 at 3:32 AM
Are there any support groups out there for lesbians who come out later in life after living as hetero for 20+ years? This is hard to do on your own. I feel a bit lost and like I dont fit anywhere #lgbtqia #comingout #lateinlifecomingout
I was told at age 17 that if I was gay Id be disowned so I lived in the closet. I even got married twice to men. I knew my father wouldnt take things well however the hope was there for a moment. Their love is conditional
December 15, 2024 at 9:19 PM
I was told at age 17 that if I was gay Id be disowned so I lived in the closet. I even got married twice to men. I knew my father wouldnt take things well however the hope was there for a moment. Their love is conditional
I came out to my mother about a month ago and told her about the move to be w/my girlfriend. She was pretty receptive and even said she would help me tell my father. She didn't & now says that I shouldn't tell him or anyone else. She said he would react badly. I dont know what to do #lgbtqia
December 15, 2024 at 9:16 PM
I came out to my mother about a month ago and told her about the move to be w/my girlfriend. She was pretty receptive and even said she would help me tell my father. She didn't & now says that I shouldn't tell him or anyone else. She said he would react badly. I dont know what to do #lgbtqia
Next visit countdown is at 29 days. I hate that I'm not able to be with her during the holidays, but will be next year onwards. We're already planning our own little traditions 🥰 #lgbtqia #ldr #longdistance
December 11, 2024 at 11:04 PM
Next visit countdown is at 29 days. I hate that I'm not able to be with her during the holidays, but will be next year onwards. We're already planning our own little traditions 🥰 #lgbtqia #ldr #longdistance
Long-distance is hard as hell. It is harder when you not only miss the love of your life, but the weather is so much better there. I cannot handle this frozen tundra when my love is 1500 miles away in the Sonoran Desert #longdistancerelationships #ldr
December 3, 2024 at 5:57 PM
Long-distance is hard as hell. It is harder when you not only miss the love of your life, but the weather is so much better there. I cannot handle this frozen tundra when my love is 1500 miles away in the Sonoran Desert #longdistancerelationships #ldr
It can feel incredibly lonely when your girlfriend is 1,500 miles away. I am trying to keep busy with work and knitting to pass the time until I see her again. I head back to her in 5 days #wlw #lgbtqia #longdistance
November 17, 2024 at 7:46 PM
It can feel incredibly lonely when your girlfriend is 1,500 miles away. I am trying to keep busy with work and knitting to pass the time until I see her again. I head back to her in 5 days #wlw #lgbtqia #longdistance
This all really started 15ish yrs ago when I met a girl online. We had a brief but emotionally intense fling that ended with us staying in touch but I never really got over her. I knew if I saw her again in person I would want to try again. I knew this when she asked me to come visit last winter.
November 16, 2024 at 1:08 AM
This all really started 15ish yrs ago when I met a girl online. We had a brief but emotionally intense fling that ended with us staying in touch but I never really got over her. I knew if I saw her again in person I would want to try again. I knew this when she asked me to come visit last winter.
It isn't like I have been completely in the closet as I've always identified as pansexual or bisexual, but have always leaned towards dating men, which is safest here in the red Midwest, especially with family. Now, everything is out there in the bright light of day.
November 15, 2024 at 7:46 PM
It isn't like I have been completely in the closet as I've always identified as pansexual or bisexual, but have always leaned towards dating men, which is safest here in the red Midwest, especially with family. Now, everything is out there in the bright light of day.
I'm considering using this platform to record the next chapter in my life, moving across the country and living as my authentic self, a goth lesbian who loves to knit and go on adventures. I will be recording my thoughts, fears, and accomplishments #lgbtqia #selfdiscovery
November 15, 2024 at 7:36 PM
I'm considering using this platform to record the next chapter in my life, moving across the country and living as my authentic self, a goth lesbian who loves to knit and go on adventures. I will be recording my thoughts, fears, and accomplishments #lgbtqia #selfdiscovery