Davi Vignola
@daviomac.bsky.social
Hi, I'm Davi, a trans femme IT engineer. This is a gender ID, not a kink. Chasers, scammers, shoo, go away. Married/poly/die hard romantic
Heavily into RPG's, science fiction, horror, LARPing, and generally embracing my inner nerdcore.
Heavily into RPG's, science fiction, horror, LARPing, and generally embracing my inner nerdcore.
There’s more to life than a lap full of purring kitten, though I’m at a loss to name it
November 26, 2025 at 2:32 AM
There’s more to life than a lap full of purring kitten, though I’m at a loss to name it
Looking at my medicine for my Progesterone prescription, and saw that I was deadnamed on it.
I. Got. Deadnamed on my HRT medication?!
Irony is a dead art.
I. Got. Deadnamed on my HRT medication?!
Irony is a dead art.
November 22, 2025 at 11:48 PM
Looking at my medicine for my Progesterone prescription, and saw that I was deadnamed on it.
I. Got. Deadnamed on my HRT medication?!
Irony is a dead art.
I. Got. Deadnamed on my HRT medication?!
Irony is a dead art.
Hey, you, anxiety attack? Eff off, I deserve joy.
November 19, 2025 at 2:43 AM
Hey, you, anxiety attack? Eff off, I deserve joy.
Whelp, wrote up a report on an ongoing issue in production that's been there for months and I've run into a lot of obstructionists in cya mode. I've been told to bounce it up to their director.
Butt cheeks clenched, I am going to be pissing off some folks.
Butt cheeks clenched, I am going to be pissing off some folks.
November 8, 2025 at 1:31 AM
Whelp, wrote up a report on an ongoing issue in production that's been there for months and I've run into a lot of obstructionists in cya mode. I've been told to bounce it up to their director.
Butt cheeks clenched, I am going to be pissing off some folks.
Butt cheeks clenched, I am going to be pissing off some folks.
A few days ago, a friend of mine said he didn't have my "grit", or resolve to get through issues and stress.
First, I think he undersells himself. Sometimes, you don't know your own strength until you are tested.
But mostly... it usually comes down to a choice. Do you survive, or do you not?
First, I think he undersells himself. Sometimes, you don't know your own strength until you are tested.
But mostly... it usually comes down to a choice. Do you survive, or do you not?
November 5, 2025 at 9:25 PM
A few days ago, a friend of mine said he didn't have my "grit", or resolve to get through issues and stress.
First, I think he undersells himself. Sometimes, you don't know your own strength until you are tested.
But mostly... it usually comes down to a choice. Do you survive, or do you not?
First, I think he undersells himself. Sometimes, you don't know your own strength until you are tested.
But mostly... it usually comes down to a choice. Do you survive, or do you not?
Long, stressful work day. But, I’m now a very loudly purring kitten on my lap, so it’s all worth it.
November 4, 2025 at 4:16 AM
Long, stressful work day. But, I’m now a very loudly purring kitten on my lap, so it’s all worth it.
Reading a queer friendly book set in the late 19th century, including a trans soldier and shoggoths. Life is good.
October 31, 2025 at 8:46 PM
Reading a queer friendly book set in the late 19th century, including a trans soldier and shoggoths. Life is good.
Last weekend's Halloween party costume.
October 31, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Last weekend's Halloween party costume.
First batch of home made oatmeal cookies. Nom!
October 25, 2025 at 11:05 PM
First batch of home made oatmeal cookies. Nom!
I've had a vendor reaching out to me for the past 6 weeks, and almost weekly trying to get me to hire his contractors. I have refused several times, and today, hopefully, he'll finally get the clue.
"I will be super blunt, since our prior conversations didn’t seem to get the point across.
"I will be super blunt, since our prior conversations didn’t seem to get the point across.
October 24, 2025 at 10:54 PM
I've had a vendor reaching out to me for the past 6 weeks, and almost weekly trying to get me to hire his contractors. I have refused several times, and today, hopefully, he'll finally get the clue.
"I will be super blunt, since our prior conversations didn’t seem to get the point across.
"I will be super blunt, since our prior conversations didn’t seem to get the point across.
"It's starting to look a bit like Halloween, with every bit of cheer"
House is starting to look awesome with holiday decorations.
House is starting to look awesome with holiday decorations.
October 24, 2025 at 2:33 AM
"It's starting to look a bit like Halloween, with every bit of cheer"
House is starting to look awesome with holiday decorations.
House is starting to look awesome with holiday decorations.
Argh. I’ve finished my reading list…. Bugger, what next to read?
October 20, 2025 at 2:24 AM
Argh. I’ve finished my reading list…. Bugger, what next to read?
The protest today does make a difference. If it didn’t, you would not have nearly the number of right wing trolls trying to bash it.
October 19, 2025 at 1:21 AM
The protest today does make a difference. If it didn’t, you would not have nearly the number of right wing trolls trying to bash it.
I was sitting out on the porch reading, when dusk started. The cacophony of birds greeting the passing day, was so loud it almost sounded like a tropical jungle
October 19, 2025 at 1:20 AM
I was sitting out on the porch reading, when dusk started. The cacophony of birds greeting the passing day, was so loud it almost sounded like a tropical jungle
Really feeling the need to sleep in today.
Cats, “we’ve never been fed ever, get up and feed us! Meow!” While kneading in my bladder.
Cats, “we’ve never been fed ever, get up and feed us! Meow!” While kneading in my bladder.
October 18, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Really feeling the need to sleep in today.
Cats, “we’ve never been fed ever, get up and feed us! Meow!” While kneading in my bladder.
Cats, “we’ve never been fed ever, get up and feed us! Meow!” While kneading in my bladder.
I forgot just how exhausting that commute was until increasing the regularity of it. Oof
October 17, 2025 at 1:39 AM
I forgot just how exhausting that commute was until increasing the regularity of it. Oof
I don't how hot shit of an engineer you think you are, if you don't double check your work, you are utterly useless to me.
This message brought by a 15-20 minute cut that took over 2 hours because of config issues on their side.
This message brought by a 15-20 minute cut that took over 2 hours because of config issues on their side.
October 16, 2025 at 7:48 PM
I don't how hot shit of an engineer you think you are, if you don't double check your work, you are utterly useless to me.
This message brought by a 15-20 minute cut that took over 2 hours because of config issues on their side.
This message brought by a 15-20 minute cut that took over 2 hours because of config issues on their side.
They laid off my number one guy today due to budget.
I’ve worked with the guy for 15 years. I’m really not ok with this.
I’ve worked with the guy for 15 years. I’m really not ok with this.
October 11, 2025 at 2:29 AM
They laid off my number one guy today due to budget.
I’ve worked with the guy for 15 years. I’m really not ok with this.
I’ve worked with the guy for 15 years. I’m really not ok with this.
My lovely wife posted this in a group chat
"The 19th anniversary is giant spider legs"
I am glad we didn't go for that traditional gift.
"The 19th anniversary is giant spider legs"
I am glad we didn't go for that traditional gift.
October 8, 2025 at 11:50 PM
My lovely wife posted this in a group chat
"The 19th anniversary is giant spider legs"
I am glad we didn't go for that traditional gift.
"The 19th anniversary is giant spider legs"
I am glad we didn't go for that traditional gift.
Faire. Hot, tire, but happy.
October 5, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Faire. Hot, tire, but happy.
Last night's dreams involved a combination of the film Brazil, Paranoia (alpha complex!), and We Happy Few.
It got really weird and disturbing. Could make an interesting story, though.
It got really weird and disturbing. Could make an interesting story, though.
October 3, 2025 at 7:38 PM
Last night's dreams involved a combination of the film Brazil, Paranoia (alpha complex!), and We Happy Few.
It got really weird and disturbing. Could make an interesting story, though.
It got really weird and disturbing. Could make an interesting story, though.
I shouldn't be allowed unsupervised at Faire or Etsy in October. So many shiny costume bits...
October 2, 2025 at 1:12 AM
I shouldn't be allowed unsupervised at Faire or Etsy in October. So many shiny costume bits...
If you wind up both shouting and crying, that makes it a good therapy session, right?
October 1, 2025 at 5:43 AM
If you wind up both shouting and crying, that makes it a good therapy session, right?
Oh hey, summons for Jury Duty. Wonder how they’ll boot me this time
September 30, 2025 at 7:30 PM
Oh hey, summons for Jury Duty. Wonder how they’ll boot me this time
Looking at the news these days is like being sandblasted in the face non-stop every day.
September 29, 2025 at 5:51 AM
Looking at the news these days is like being sandblasted in the face non-stop every day.