Dapper Durian
@dapperdurian.bsky.social
In a world of noise and uncertainty, I choose to treat myself with radical acceptance, others with inspirational inclusivity, and adversity with strategic stoicism.
Let's build something resilient and positive.
Let's build something resilient and positive.
Today is the day you don't trust anything announced on the Internet or media. Wait... Isn't that every day?
"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot fool all of the people all of the time."
- Abraham Lincoln
"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot fool all of the people all of the time."
- Abraham Lincoln
April 1, 2025 at 1:39 PM
Today is the day you don't trust anything announced on the Internet or media. Wait... Isn't that every day?
"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot fool all of the people all of the time."
- Abraham Lincoln
"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot fool all of the people all of the time."
- Abraham Lincoln
Happy World Sleep Day everyone! Hope y'all can catch up on the sleep you lost from our anachronistic practice of "saving time".
I'll be celebrating by getting a few extra hours to relax and temporarily disconnect from the world.
"You can't wake up if you don't fall asleep."
- Asteroid City (2023)
I'll be celebrating by getting a few extra hours to relax and temporarily disconnect from the world.
"You can't wake up if you don't fall asleep."
- Asteroid City (2023)
March 14, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Happy World Sleep Day everyone! Hope y'all can catch up on the sleep you lost from our anachronistic practice of "saving time".
I'll be celebrating by getting a few extra hours to relax and temporarily disconnect from the world.
"You can't wake up if you don't fall asleep."
- Asteroid City (2023)
I'll be celebrating by getting a few extra hours to relax and temporarily disconnect from the world.
"You can't wake up if you don't fall asleep."
- Asteroid City (2023)
Why did I choose durian in my handle?
The durian is the King of Fruits, but it's very existence is divisive: you hate it or love it.
Spikes and odor make it hard to get close. Get past that, there's a sweetness.
Simultaneously ugly, beautiful, dangerous, and desired.
I identify with the durian.
The durian is the King of Fruits, but it's very existence is divisive: you hate it or love it.
Spikes and odor make it hard to get close. Get past that, there's a sweetness.
Simultaneously ugly, beautiful, dangerous, and desired.
I identify with the durian.
March 12, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Why did I choose durian in my handle?
The durian is the King of Fruits, but it's very existence is divisive: you hate it or love it.
Spikes and odor make it hard to get close. Get past that, there's a sweetness.
Simultaneously ugly, beautiful, dangerous, and desired.
I identify with the durian.
The durian is the King of Fruits, but it's very existence is divisive: you hate it or love it.
Spikes and odor make it hard to get close. Get past that, there's a sweetness.
Simultaneously ugly, beautiful, dangerous, and desired.
I identify with the durian.
Been procrastinating on adulting lately(e.g. taxes) and things are piling up. Time to activate serious productivity mode.
"If it's your job to eat a frog, it's best to do it first thing in the morning. And if it's your job to eat two frogs, it's best to eat the biggest one first."
-Mark Twain
"If it's your job to eat a frog, it's best to do it first thing in the morning. And if it's your job to eat two frogs, it's best to eat the biggest one first."
-Mark Twain
March 11, 2025 at 3:18 AM
Been procrastinating on adulting lately(e.g. taxes) and things are piling up. Time to activate serious productivity mode.
"If it's your job to eat a frog, it's best to do it first thing in the morning. And if it's your job to eat two frogs, it's best to eat the biggest one first."
-Mark Twain
"If it's your job to eat a frog, it's best to do it first thing in the morning. And if it's your job to eat two frogs, it's best to eat the biggest one first."
-Mark Twain
As Black History month comes to a close, I wanted to share a quote that really resonated with me:
"We must never forget that Black History is American history. The achievements of African Americans have contributed to our nation's greatness."
- Yvette Clarke, US Congresswoman
"We must never forget that Black History is American history. The achievements of African Americans have contributed to our nation's greatness."
- Yvette Clarke, US Congresswoman
March 1, 2025 at 3:00 AM
As Black History month comes to a close, I wanted to share a quote that really resonated with me:
"We must never forget that Black History is American history. The achievements of African Americans have contributed to our nation's greatness."
- Yvette Clarke, US Congresswoman
"We must never forget that Black History is American history. The achievements of African Americans have contributed to our nation's greatness."
- Yvette Clarke, US Congresswoman
Finally found some time to write my profile bio with my values:
How I treat myself: With radical self-acceptance
How I treat others: With inspirational inclusivity
How I respond to adversity: With strategic stoicism
How I treat myself: With radical self-acceptance
How I treat others: With inspirational inclusivity
How I respond to adversity: With strategic stoicism
February 27, 2025 at 5:04 AM
Finally found some time to write my profile bio with my values:
How I treat myself: With radical self-acceptance
How I treat others: With inspirational inclusivity
How I respond to adversity: With strategic stoicism
How I treat myself: With radical self-acceptance
How I treat others: With inspirational inclusivity
How I respond to adversity: With strategic stoicism
Radical self-acceptance: I embrace myself (flaws and all) without judgment nor comparison. I’m a work in progress, always growing and changing. Everyone struggles, so I’ll treat myself with compassion. Focusing on the present, I strive to be my best self in each moment.
This is how I treat myself.
This is how I treat myself.
February 10, 2025 at 6:33 AM
Radical self-acceptance: I embrace myself (flaws and all) without judgment nor comparison. I’m a work in progress, always growing and changing. Everyone struggles, so I’ll treat myself with compassion. Focusing on the present, I strive to be my best self in each moment.
This is how I treat myself.
This is how I treat myself.
Starting the day off with a nostalgic combination of spam and kimchi on rice. What's your nostalgia breakfast? #gochujang_spam #two-sisters-kimchi #rice #filipino #korean #breakfast
January 26, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Starting the day off with a nostalgic combination of spam and kimchi on rice. What's your nostalgia breakfast? #gochujang_spam #two-sisters-kimchi #rice #filipino #korean #breakfast
The Dapper Durian is now on Bluesky! Everything's coming up Milhouse!
January 20, 2025 at 5:31 AM
The Dapper Durian is now on Bluesky! Everything's coming up Milhouse!