Jay Harcourt
@daddygingersf.bsky.social
A Gay, San Francisco, Gen X burn it all down kind of lefty. Married to a millennial, Demi-leaning, Poly-exploring, Ginger Daddy. Have been involved in the kink community 20+yrs.
Background is in public health and I work in healthcare compliance
Background is in public health and I work in healthcare compliance
Category is: Imperial State funeral for a drag queen. Wearing jewels gifted by said queen. Farewell Marlena the Magnificent
November 9, 2025 at 2:59 AM
Category is: Imperial State funeral for a drag queen. Wearing jewels gifted by said queen. Farewell Marlena the Magnificent
Second night of theatre for this weekend. I’m very excited to see this!
November 3, 2025 at 6:38 AM
Second night of theatre for this weekend. I’m very excited to see this!
First night of theatre for the weekend. Definitely topical…
November 2, 2025 at 2:26 AM
First night of theatre for the weekend. Definitely topical…
8 years today! It’s actually flown by and I am grateful that we continue to choose each other. Looking forward to our shared future.
October 21, 2025 at 10:34 PM
8 years today! It’s actually flown by and I am grateful that we continue to choose each other. Looking forward to our shared future.
Anniversary breakfast view. Happy place.
October 21, 2025 at 5:04 PM
Anniversary breakfast view. Happy place.
An unexpected pick me up today. Had no idea it is Boss’s Day. Nice to know that I’m doing some things right.
October 16, 2025 at 7:01 PM
An unexpected pick me up today. Had no idea it is Boss’s Day. Nice to know that I’m doing some things right.
Some of my favorite memories of my friend Marlena (Garry McLain) from the last 20+ years. I'm glad he passed peacefully in his sleep. He was a lot of things, but mostly he was my friend and chosen family. Thank you for everything my friend!
Empress 25 Marlena the Magnificent
11/14/1939 - 10/05/2025
Empress 25 Marlena the Magnificent
11/14/1939 - 10/05/2025
October 6, 2025 at 1:54 AM
Some of my favorite memories of my friend Marlena (Garry McLain) from the last 20+ years. I'm glad he passed peacefully in his sleep. He was a lot of things, but mostly he was my friend and chosen family. Thank you for everything my friend!
Empress 25 Marlena the Magnificent
11/14/1939 - 10/05/2025
Empress 25 Marlena the Magnificent
11/14/1939 - 10/05/2025
I’ve learned that - after a long day of running the Clothes Check booth at Folsom - the nicest thing to do is go out for a nice dinner and drink (for me) with my Love. Tonight, Delfina.
September 29, 2025 at 3:38 AM
I’ve learned that - after a long day of running the Clothes Check booth at Folsom - the nicest thing to do is go out for a nice dinner and drink (for me) with my Love. Tonight, Delfina.
Taking a break from Dore Alley week for our night at the theatre this month.
July 26, 2025 at 2:30 AM
Taking a break from Dore Alley week for our night at the theatre this month.
Rolling into Dore Alley weekend with Gaga - we had to go on Tuesday cuz we have something every other night this week/weekend. These gays are gonna kill me…
July 23, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Rolling into Dore Alley weekend with Gaga - we had to go on Tuesday cuz we have something every other night this week/weekend. These gays are gonna kill me…
Not a bad place for a work meeting
July 17, 2025 at 11:36 PM
Not a bad place for a work meeting
Having an extra cocktail before I have to listen to bridge-and-tunnel wives sing all night long.
Every season, there’s at least one that we are NOT excited about, but at least it’s a date night.
Every season, there’s at least one that we are NOT excited about, but at least it’s a date night.
June 14, 2025 at 2:10 AM
Having an extra cocktail before I have to listen to bridge-and-tunnel wives sing all night long.
Every season, there’s at least one that we are NOT excited about, but at least it’s a date night.
Every season, there’s at least one that we are NOT excited about, but at least it’s a date night.
Based on the warning we got, I’m sure this will be uplifting… our night of theatre for this month.
May 24, 2025 at 2:20 AM
Based on the warning we got, I’m sure this will be uplifting… our night of theatre for this month.
Wow, 20 years ago I did a thing. So many great memories of that weekend, and happy to say that many of us in my class have maintained friendships all these years later. I'm thinking of friends embarking on this journey of their own this weekend too and I hope it brings them the same.
May 22, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Wow, 20 years ago I did a thing. So many great memories of that weekend, and happy to say that many of us in my class have maintained friendships all these years later. I'm thinking of friends embarking on this journey of their own this weekend too and I hope it brings them the same.
LOL, sure. Good luck with that…
May 17, 2025 at 3:16 AM
LOL, sure. Good luck with that…
First time I’ve seen this visitor looking for breakfast in our backyard.
March 21, 2025 at 5:41 PM
First time I’ve seen this visitor looking for breakfast in our backyard.
You can tell from my face how sure I am about this. My general attitude is WHYYY?? But we have a subscription, so at least we get a date night…
March 8, 2025 at 3:21 AM
You can tell from my face how sure I am about this. My general attitude is WHYYY?? But we have a subscription, so at least we get a date night…
This year is shaping up for lots of Divas. Kylie in April, Kelly in August, and Dua in October.
February 9, 2025 at 5:30 AM
This year is shaping up for lots of Divas. Kylie in April, Kelly in August, and Dua in October.
Our night at the theatre this month. We saw the original cast on Broadway and loved it, so excited to see it again.
January 18, 2025 at 3:31 AM
Our night at the theatre this month. We saw the original cast on Broadway and loved it, so excited to see it again.
Busiest Thursday of MAL I’ve seen. The hotel was still filled with normies, but the Gays just took over.
January 10, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Busiest Thursday of MAL I’ve seen. The hotel was still filled with normies, but the Gays just took over.