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Chicago Daddy of All Daddies to Apollo + Alan
Alan @boyvialansmanch.bsky.social
Apollo @iangray.bsky.social
Husband of 26 years to Ken
Layout artist and graphic designer
Sondheim worshipper
Happy Birthday!
October 29, 2025 at 10:49 PM
Might have done a little photo shoot to cheer up the pup/deer/buffalo who is feeling the event drop hard today.
October 26, 2025 at 10:49 PM
A nice view for #fcf #fatcockfriday
October 17, 2025 at 7:49 PM
And you call yourself kinky?
October 16, 2025 at 11:58 PM
The lady at the center of this picture is my mother. I remembered we had taken these during my first visit with her after the pandemic. I love that she’s laughing here. It is my favorite way to think of her, because in this family, we laughed A LOT.
October 14, 2025 at 1:47 PM
At the VIP lounge for Jimmy Kimmel Live! at the Brooklyn Academy of Music. Everything complimentary. My boy @iangray.bsky.social knows how to have a birthday!
#kimmelinbrooklyn
October 3, 2025 at 8:04 PM
The highlight of the birthday weekend. Sparklers, singing… to an empty chair. While we were focused lighting things, the birthday boy took a bathroom break.
September 27, 2025 at 10:42 AM
This past weekend we celebrated my husband’s 70th birthday. This is me making dinner for 22 people and looking way more confident about it than I actually was. Thankfully, everything came out edible and even had some fans.
September 24, 2025 at 12:47 PM
If my company starts publishing books with this monstrosity involved, I will quit.
August 28, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Mother/daughter
August 26, 2025 at 12:56 PM
Three ways.

#FatCockFriday #FCF
August 22, 2025 at 4:32 PM
While it’s always sad leaving @iangray.bsky.social, after last night’s flying debacle, glad to be going home.
August 20, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Once again climate change has me having to reschedule a flight.

This summer and flights have been rifuckingdiculous.
August 19, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Working hard to keep my inches down in a wicked little town while the boyfriend gets important work finished.

It ain’t easy.

#SoftieSaturday
August 16, 2025 at 9:01 PM
It seems the theme of flying this summer is…

Add one to three hours of any planned trip. If it isn’t a thunderstorm, you’re WAITING FOR PAPERWORK ON A COMPLETED REPAIR.

Has the airline industry ever heard of a PDF??
August 15, 2025 at 1:14 PM
Decided to take a break from work.
August 11, 2025 at 3:53 PM
1. The last couple of weeks being sick have taken a pound or two off. Trying to keep that going.

2. Dressing to pick up the boy at the airport.
July 27, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Is there anything MORE New York Times tone deafness than the placement of these two stories?

A child screaming from hunger next to the American couple whose $450K dreams came true in Normandy.
July 24, 2025 at 2:50 PM
If you’re going to a wedding, go to one in Tepoztlan Part II.
July 11, 2025 at 9:11 PM
If you’re going to a wedding, go to one in Tepoztlan Part I.
July 11, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Preview of the outfit I’m wearing to a friend’s wedding in Mexico this coming weekend.
July 8, 2025 at 12:41 PM
You need to be watching this.

YOU NEED TO BE WATCHING THIS.
July 7, 2025 at 1:06 AM
What in the Elaine and Ed Warren hell is this little nightmare that is staring directly at our home?
July 6, 2025 at 10:42 PM
And finally…
Anniversary gift #4 with @iangray.bsky.social. What a delicious serving of cotton candy. Not an ounce of nutrition, and might even be bad for you, but your sugary pink smile says it all: it was SO GOOD.
June 27, 2025 at 5:40 PM
Anniversary gift #3 from @iangray.bsky.social.
JESUS was this Tony earned! You cannot comprehend how Snook keeps this going and on mark for 2 solid hours. Indescribable, but one of the best things I have EVER seen.
June 27, 2025 at 4:01 PM