You're right. I should probably keep doing it if it helps.

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But I think that second half of the phrase applies to kind or comforting words, how they're only words and don't actually help people. That's why I hate being put in a situation where someone having a rough day and I have to tell them it's fine. I'm not a bad person, I just don't think I'm helping.

When thinking about this, I remember the phrase "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me". In that context it means that words are just words. They're not strong and therefore can't hurt you. It's said when someone says mean things to another.

I hate having to be the one to comfort someone and tell them it's going to work out in the end, because it's not always true and no matter how many times I can tell people it's okay it might not be.

You're not. It's valid to feel this way because she doesn't deserve this and neither do you.

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I'm sorry that that's happened. Hope things get better for you and your grandmother 😔

I do not condone bots on Youtube (p**n, uttp, etc.) but in this case I think it's valid (without the disgusting pfp).

I'm so sorry I really need to catch up on what missed since I left Bluesky for a while. I promise I'm done.