effroyablement réel

this is terrifying to many world institutions, of course, invested in keeping happy heterosexual pairs as the family citizens of nations, and for the inferiority of women or the necessity of women to "need" men to be biologically inscribed on their flesh by way of sexing the body.

a lot of bad cis understandings of trans and nonbinary people operate on the idea that a definitively sexed body is the natural substrate. this idea must die for people to be free in all their individual uniquenesses and shared continuities of biological-social abilities and experiences