Like I still personally dislike the term transandrophobia but I can acknowledge trans men and mascs have specific primary ways of being targeted and attacked that transfems and trans women do not. But I also don't have a solution for whichever term people may want to use.

And

E) Transmasc and Transfem have started becoming watered down to "perisex trans man" and "perisex trans woman" alike.

used to actually discuss real issues that affect transmasculine people that are actually just coming from misogyny on the basis of being someone who is "supposed to be a woman" but is other instead.

C) ENBIES do not have male privilege

D) Trans men have male privilege but not the way cis men do

Like is it so hard for people to accept that

A) Transmisogyny is the intersection between misogyny towards those who identify as women and transphobia

B) Transandrophobia as it was coined to be describing was bad but it has evolved past the "discrimination from the fear of men" claim the coiner..

and on the other side you have super privileged trans guys who claim they have all the power in the world and their male privilege is identical to that of a cis guy and actually transmascs are barley even trans and transmascs have male privilege even when they aren't men... Magically...

Also the fact cis women can't comprehend that their hatred for people with a different orientation is not the same as trans people only dating each other for SAFETY (because bi/pan/aro/ace people don't oppress lesbians but cis people sure oppress trans people) is fucking crazy.

Gold Star lesbians are the most annoying and irritating pieces of shit. Like they believe so hard in the ideas patriarchy espouses about women being ran through and useless after being with one man and it's disgusting. It's not feminist to believe that someone who's had a relationship is now used up

the body part and it feels alien in a distressing way. It's a horrific disability and considering people's lives are objectively better when they get an amputation it should be allowed. (With rigorous tests of course to make sure that's the condition and they're not actively psychotic or similar)

I'm doing so much better now at 21, almost 22 and my life has only been getting better. I quit my decade long caffeine addiction (yes I got addicted starting around 11) and now I'm actually eating real food again and not forcing myself to eat so much I throw up all the time.

I went from 160 to 224 because of the effects of their abuse and the way I seek comfort eating as my form of coping. I gained over 64 pounds in a few years. And it's depressing to me. My eating disorder took over my life. But now I'm back on track, down to 215 and I know I can get to 160 again.

My goal is to lessen the amount of alters in every subsystem maybe even get each subsystem to fuse but that depends on what the others want

has also been healing. Trying to be the opposite of everything that your abuser is and even getting some friends concerned about how aggressively you shifted only to realize the topic became a trigger for you to think of your abuser thus why you thought anyone who talked about it was evil is wild.

doesn't make me like them. I was desperate to get as far away from what I was but I didn't even notice the kinds of cruelty I kept with me even as I moved on.

To all transmascs and trans men I apologize for the harm I've done and what I've contributed to.